I have a friend who keeps lieing to me and he says that he is sorry but i am not sure if that is the Truth of what he say i would like your help please i am not feeling well and i am not happy for my friend of lieing to me
2007-04-20 14:41:04 · 13 answers · asked by betsywilcox_40371 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't up jump and trust someone who JUST lied to you recently, no matter how much you care about them. It's going to take time for them to build that trust back up, so give yourself time and them time to do so.
2007-04-20 14:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he really a friend if he continues to lie to you? What is he lying about that's making you upset? If you get sick over what he does to you, maybe it's not a good idea to be around him right now. Take a stand and tell him how you feel about his behavior. He may be doing this to you over & over again because you let him. Give him something to be scared about and tell him you need some time away from him. This way he'll know you're serious and think twice about lying again. What do you have to lose? If he cares about your friendship, he will make it known to you and apologize. If not, you just did yourself a favor by letting him go. All the best to you.
2007-04-20 21:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lemme tell ya sumthing girl, ive just recently got out of a one year relationship with someone who lied to me the entire time we were together....to be honest, i didnt know how to handle it either...however i do have some advice to give. >There must be a reason your friend feels he must lie to you, sit down and have a long talk about it. Let them know that your are hurt by it, and if they show no compassion and keep lying to you...they werent much of a friend anyway. But, be aware, people dont change over night...and guys never change at all....its gonna take a long time to heal from this, and correct it. Your gonna have to keep a close watch on your friend....if he knows that you know hes lying to you and he doesnt make an effort to tell the truth...(like a said before) hes not much of a friend anyway, and you should distance yourself from him. But, if this is a first and he didnt know that you knew, make sure that he knows your serious and hurt...but you wanna make everything ok. ***
2007-04-20 21:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by niki p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said he keeps lying to you. I would tell him that friends do not lie to each other, that you cannot trust or respect him anymore as a friend. You have forgiven him in the past? If so, I would probably stop being his friend. It isn't worth being constantly hurt by someone you trust so much. God says not to hang around those who bring you down. He appears to be bringing you down. Find someone that will help lift you up.
Tell your "friend" how much he has hurt you, and he has hurt you for the last time. I would end it. Find better friends. He can be an acquaintance if you wish, in that if you see him you can casually say hello, but nothing else, just be civil.
Hugs and prayers to you for your pain to be eased and your strength renewed.
2007-04-20 21:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you. I WAS gonna say to figure out the reason he would lie..ie, covering up a mistake or something.. but now that you said he does it a lot... too hard to trust him.
2007-04-20 21:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by ṼξŋØლǿԱ§ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't fully trust a liar, but it depends on the level of the lie here, in your case consider if it is a white lie or something bigger. in the end confront this person and tell them that you do not appreciate being lied to, but in a gentle, subtle, yet firm and confident manner, and stand your ground.
2007-04-20 21:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone will lie and treat you bad as long as you let them.
Don't forget the golden rule...Fool me once shame on you.
Fool me twice shame on me...get over it. Friends like that who needs enemies??
2007-04-20 21:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by flateach33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend their gonna have to earn your trust back.Let them know it might take a while.it might hurt your friend.They will know you dont like being lied to.friends are suppose to be close to one another.not lie to you.
2007-04-20 22:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by ONLY THE LONELY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Liars are untrustworthy and don't make good friends. Give this so-called friend up before you get really depressed.
2007-04-20 21:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's a jerk and if anyone is afraid to tell u the truth then they r cowards and u should ditch them
2007-04-20 22:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by apiepie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋