i think i'm straight.. but i'm not sure...i've been stressed for 2 months thinking about what i am..i still don't know. but what i do know is that i'm totally crazy about boys. there hot. but girls are really pretty! help!!!!!!!!!!!111
2007-04-20 13:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by alisa s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's completely normal. I think most girls question at one point or another. I think it's healthy.
Even if you do kinda like girls a little bit, it doesn't mean you're a lesbian or even bi. For example, I have a boyfriend and I wouldn't trade him for the world, but I find some of my female friends attractive (heck, we even made out a few times). I would never consider really dating a girl, though, so I don't think I qualify as "bi" which would imply an equal preference for both genders.
My man just says it makes me the perfect girlfriend ;)
2007-04-20 13:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by megan_of_the_swamp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all:
It's ok to like boys.
It's ok to like girls.
It's ok to like both.
I can very well understand that you are confused if you are trying to resolve your sexuality.
I used to wonder about the same thing and for a long time I wasn't sure. However, I found out that whatever the results would be, I wouldn't be able to do anything about it, so why worry?
You don't have to rush into anything. Just follow your heart and soon enough it will answer your question.
A lesbian friend of mine said that you shouldn't think about if you want to have sex to a girl or not - sex is always a bit weird, no matter what two persons are doing it.
You should think about if you want to kiss a girl or not and how that would make you feel. Then you find your answer.
Good luck.
2007-04-20 21:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Georgina Elin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that at all. Your sexuality is your choice and no one elses. Just make sure you're not doing it because it's what others are doing. Be sure that you have feelings behind it or you might end up breaking another girls heart. I suggest if you are going to experiment make sure the other girl knows you aren't sure so that she is prepared if you change your mind. Good luck, and don't let other people tell you whats right. Decide for yourself.
2007-04-20 20:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask this question in this category unless you wanted the answer to be yes??
I'll give you the opposite. No it is not ok to be involved sexually or romantically with the same sex. You're right , girls are pretty and attractive, but you are meant to be with guys.
I was attracted to girls for about 8 years and I was always feeling horrible about it. I've since been set free from that and realized that it was simply a lie that I began to believe, so it took over my mind and fooled me into thinking that since I thought a girl was pretty, I must be a lesbian. It's just not true at all. Don't let that lie ensnare you. Don't speak that lie over yourself or it will begin to take over until it destroys you.
2007-04-20 20:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not weird to think girls are pretty. Women can appreciate beauty whereever they see it.
But sexual attraction is a different story. You might be influenced by our culture which is becoming oriented towards gay and lesbian sex, both of which are sinful and unnatural.
So don't let it go further than curiosity. Don't dwell on the thoughts or you will be "feeding the beast." Starve it.
2007-04-20 20:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Veritas 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, if you have that special attraction ot both, then U like both. Depends what feelin you get when U think of a certain sex.
2007-04-20 20:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by Porsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Being bi opens up a lot of opportunities for you and some guys really like to have a bi girlfriend.
2007-04-20 20:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by jl46b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Won't hurt you to explore with someone else who's also interested. Each gender has it's attractions. As they say, "Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't."
2007-04-20 20:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by pingraham@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Paxico doesn't know what she's talking about. It's okay to be bi. And this is pretty much like your last question...
2007-04-20 20:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know what you feel if you do not try
try one if you don't like go the other
only you can say
2007-04-20 20:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋