Simple partying causes me to check out for months. Many things make me uncomfortable. I have become a little anti-social. i have no desire to speak with people in a certain environment.
2007-04-20 12:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Could be an anxiety disorder...maybe chemical, maybe something that you aren't able to deal with well. I would suggest seeing a psychologist. Be open to ideas, but if you do go, don't feel that someone should be able to tell you that you should or should not take medication. It's your decision, make sure it's educated, but meds have really changed my life. I have an anxiety disorder.
2007-04-20 12:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by elyse 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was hit by a car once, lol. Slow moving, and I was standing in the road during a fire drill at school. Stupid drivers ed kids. But for traumatic, a guy at the ice rink split his calf open with his own skate blade. I helped administer first aid until the ambulance came. Also, when I worked at the cat shelter, a cat ripped a claw out, and I had to grab her real quick, and hold her down while she was being checked out. Only changed me by the fact that I know going into some type of law enforcement or paramedic/fireman field that I can handle situations like that.
2016-05-19 23:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek help immediately if this applies to every social setting you encounter. Everything in life is not a trauma, and what you are experiencing, if this is the case, is not normal. However, if what you are seeing in limited social settings are things to which you are morally opposed, then you just need to place yourself in a different setting that agrees with your moral mindset, such as a church group social setting where you can interact with people of like mind and belief. If you don't have a belief system, then seek one out. Go to a church or other religious institution until you find a church home or church setting where you are comfortable. Sometimes the Holy Spirit of God is the one opposed to the setting in which you find yourself, and that Holy Spirit is what is inside of you telling you something is wrong. In that case there is nothing wrong, and you should listen to the Holy Spirit.
2007-04-20 13:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by No Name 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip man. everyone has traumatic experiences sometime in thier lives. The key is how you let it affect your thinking, and actions. There really is nothing you can do that will change the outcome. Hindsight is always 20/20. What could have been, what should have been has no bearing on what is. The key to overcoming setbacks is to not dwell on it. This will change nothing but your mental health.
2007-04-20 13:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real trick here is realizing that you are the one creating this situation. It is not the result of any external influence.
When I do this I tell myself, you are the one making this up. If you can make up something that gets you this upset you should be able to think about it in some more productive way that brings you peace.
It takes a while but in time this completely changes your outlook about these situations.
Love and blessings Don
2007-04-20 15:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your head. Things that aren't traumatic you are making traumatic. Don't have a mindset of "if i do that than it will make me feel bad". Maybe one truly traumatic experience led you to be scared of other things and when you keep that belief it will happen to you. If you don't like the fact that things are traumatic for you or that you are anti-social then focus on being a sociable person or focus on making things joyful. Make sure you don't think " i DON"T want things to be traumatic" think " I want my life to be joyful." Not is a negative word so you shouldn't focus on it.
focus on what you WANT not what u don't want
2007-04-20 13:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL These are the results of "simple" or "common" things??? LOL What will you do if things in life actually get tough????? LOL
2007-04-20 14:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Izen G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me too#
either you are depressed or you just need some time out
sounds luke a result of build up of stress
give it time
2007-04-20 12:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋