My partners says he finds me cold inside when having sex becoz of my cold feet and hands. Does this exist?

Question

he says he doesn't feel the normal sensention hence he doesn't like having sex at all.We have an almost 12 age difference and there isn't much of a foreplay as he says there is no driving force.

Answer 1

thanks for your answer to my earlier question. i understand how you feel. it is very difficult not to take this personally. you MUST avoid feeling this way, however. i felt for the first 2 years that there was something wrong with me. on our honeymoon night, he patted me on the back, rolled over and went to sleep. i secretly cried into my pillow. there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. this is ALL about him. how old is this man? has he ever been married before? he has some serious issues, and to make you feel bad makes it doubly bad. i suggest that you insist that he get help. if he choosed not to, you have every right to leave the relationship.

Answer 2

It has nothing to do with hands and feet, which are often cold for many women. It's his problem, if you feel cold inside. No woman is cold up there. Not possible! The inside of a woman's vagina is as hot as the inside of a person's mouth. Even if you're colder than average, you're still warm!

Answer 3

Good Lord! Ask him what the "normal" sensation is- have him describe it using words. "You know" is not an answer.

As for the cold feet and hands, you could have Raynaud's syndrome and as far as I know it affects the extremities not the vagina.

Lack of foreplay is laziness and lack of respect for your needs. Think about it.

Answer 4

Well, I'm not sure what you're saying, but your inside body temp. should not be cold! Sounds like he has some issues going on.

Answer 5

dat probally means dat u n ur boiifriend ne3d 2 start usin a CONDOM!

Answer 6

that's his arousal problem, sounds like he's cheating on you feeling guilty.

Answer 7

What the hell are you talking about?