I am an 18 year old female who was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. My psychologist put me on 150mg of Effexor XR a day. I have been on it since March 7th 2007. I have seen an improvement with my depression and anxiety however I feel there is something more to it. Most of my side-effects from the medication have dissappeared other than my low blood pressure which is causing me to faint but I am getting an ECG and a holter monitor to analyze that. Blood tests say it is not due to hypoglycemiaI have always been a jealous person although I am pretty good at hiding it with my friends. I am not so good at hiding it with my boyfriend. He is an amazing guy and I am so lucky to have him but I get paranoid if he goes out with friends. Here is an example, he went to Wrestlemania with his cousin and I made up a scenrio in my mind that he went to meet up with a girl and cheat on me. I did this even after I saw his ticket for the event.....
2007-04-20 11:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
also have crazy mood swings that dont seem to have a trigger. People can describe me as the happiest girl in the world witht he biggest smile ever but then in the blink of an eye I am irritable and angry. I feel my heart pount and my teeth clench and I just want to jump out of my skin to hurt someone. I also get paranoid sometimes. This comes in spurts of a few days and then goes away. I fear I am being stalked, watched, targeted and that I am going to be harmed at any minute. I have not opened up about this with my doctor because I don't want him to send me to the hospital or something. He doesn't take my suicidal thoughts seriously anyways. I don't think I'd hurt myself but when I am alone and get my mood swing, it is sooo tempting. PS I am talking a psychologist along with the medication.
2007-04-20 11:01:30 · update #1
Thank you for adding you are seeing a psych. Are you comfortable with this person? If you aren't it's not his fault or your fault, some people just don't click. Make an appointment with another one if you find you can't be completely open.
You didn't get this problem over night and it will not cure quickly. Keep your appointments and keep on your meds...you will get better.
2007-04-20 11:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad you've got yourself help hunni :) The first step to recovery.
I've got to say I kind of know what your going through (but obv. not completely).
I can say that you say your so lucky to have this guy... but why then make up things about him? I mean have you been hurt in the past? or is it just a paranoia? Have you talked to him, and tried to ask him to try and understand your feelings?
I think doctors should take any threats on a life seriously (whether they are real threats or not).. but even if you haven't told your doctor have you told your psychaitrist (sp?)??
I think you're really brave for coming forward about your problems and I think that your friends etc. should accept you for you and if they don't then that's just their problem... there is nothing wrong with you as a person :)
2007-04-20 11:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by cos_mic_2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really suggest you get some counseling to help you deal with these feelings. Talk to your Dr that prescribed the effexor. It may not be the best antidepressant for you. I went through three different ones until I found the one that worked for me the best. With all the worrying and anxiety you have, a counselor could really help you work through some of those feelings. As for your boyfriend, stop accusing him of doing things or he will get tired of that and move on. No one likes to be accused of something they;re not doing. A counselor could help you control those feelings, too. Get some help, it will be worth it to feel better about yourself and those around you. Good luck.
2007-04-20 15:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no doctor and or psychologist to be telling you anything. What I can tell you is to be fully open and honest with the psychologist you are seeing. I could say its a part of growing up, yet I don't want to mislead you. In order to get an answer the absolute right answer you have to ask the absolute right person.
2007-04-20 11:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing a bit of mental discipline and self control can't fix. Too many times people want the easy way out (take a pill). If you really want to change, generally you can. Set your mind to it and focus. It wont be instant, but it is possible.
Yes I do know that some people have serious chemical problems, but I also know that people are too quick to conclude that someone has this serious of a condition. It's called pharmacutical companies making big money.
2007-04-20 11:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hum I tend to look at it this way
Its not me with the problem, its the rest of the world that disturbed
2007-04-20 11:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you telling these things to your psychiatrist?
If not, you should.
They're not going to lock you up, but they can't help you if you aren't straight with them.
2007-04-20 15:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hum that is something that only your doctor can solve.
2007-04-20 11:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋