this person, who i'm close friends with, has showed affection towards me when with his girlfriend and admitted to me that he liked me but didnt want to be put in the situation where he's hurt someone and so nothing more happened of it. but there has been little things between us and a week or so ago, he split with his girlfriend but still loves her and still text her. although this has happened only a few days ago, lastnight while we were staying with a friend, he was affectionate to me. i'm so frustrated because he still loves his gf alot. I love him so much and its hurting me to know that i may never have him, that he'll probably go back to her. and i dont want to spoil our friendship either by asking questions he might not like. what can i do?
2007-04-20 10:55:26 · 13 answers · asked by eve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you know he loves her that should be your answer and know that he is just rebounding and he might actully like you but shes in his heart
2007-04-20 11:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him keep you hanging with this on and off again romance he is having. If he is still texting her, and receiving emails or cell phone calls from her, then the relationship could still resume. Tell him, if he really cares for you, he should end the relationship totally and then call you. Otherwise, I would not have anything to do with him, because all this situation will cause is anguish, hurt and pain for you. By the way, you can love again, believe me. If he doesn't end the relationship completely, move on and find a nice guy that is unattached, available and ready for romance.
2007-04-20 18:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's still texting her and he says he still loves her, there is every likelihood that he'll go back with her so it would be better if you just remain his friend for the time being, and see how things pan out. If you start something now and he goes back with this girl you'll get hurt so don't go there, right now he needs your friendship and support, if he doesn't go back with her things might grow between you, but have patience, he needs time to heal.
2007-04-20 22:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Loxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know where you are coming from, that's for sure. You just have to wait a little. If he's still not over his ex in a month, I would lay off, even if he's affectionate towards you. It's likely he just needs someone to make him feel better. But if he seems to be over her, and she's not in his life much anymore, that's where you come in.
Do whatever you feel
2007-04-20 18:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by sno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings you already have,, for him will change anyway if he goes back to his gfriend,, because you will feel hurt, anyway...So go for it and be honest , cos youve nothing to lose,, either way,, if he goes back to his girlfriend,, the friendship wont be the same again? Or just keep a bit of distance away till you feel comfortable as friends again...
2007-04-20 23:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by madmarie35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard, but you have to get over him. Trust me from experience, you will get hurt. Last year, my boyfriend and I were broken up and still talking. He met someone else. But after a month, we got back together and he left her. In my case, we were together for almost 2 years and we never really got over each other. We still loved each other and that's why we got back together. It sounds like your guy still loves his girlfriend very much. My advice is to get over him. He will get back together with her and you might get hurt. Keep that in mind. Good luck!
2007-04-20 18:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy Really likes U - it's very simple, he will want U&onlyU..& he will persue U only..
Obviously, that's Not happening here.. while he may show some sort ofaffection4u.. he still loves his girlfriend
Back off, let him sort out his emotions&if he Still wants u.. he'll come get u..
2007-04-20 18:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by jammy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay well clear if you want to
avoid any arguments and lose friends
he may just want to use you as another
conquest, to boost his ego,
2007-04-20 18:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by retired gentleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wants and keeping contact with her, so what yu want with him, move on with your life. You would not want no one to back door you if you was that favorite one in a guy's life.
2007-04-20 18:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him/her how u really feel about them it might turn out goog and it might turn out bad! hope it helps!
2007-04-20 18:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋