person so mean to me........................
2007-04-20 09:07:08 · 17 answers · asked by alexa_dakos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell them to go to hell and stop talking to them. You know what, on 2nd thought, donb't say anything to them. they are not worth your breath.
2007-04-20 09:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by DForte330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the quicker way is to just shout at him or hit him back but in the longer run it will just be worse.I mean if u hit him whats the difference between him n u.Just forgive him and move on someday the truth will come out.Oh and just be wise not to share secrets to everyone u trust.Trust me i am in situations like this and when hit back people someday i needed there help and had to go through some tough stuff.
And let GOD help u deal with the situation.
"For GOD so loved the world that he sent his only son that who so ever believes in him shall not perish but have everylasting life".U too can have a relationship with JESUS by asking him to forgive your sins and past and cleanse u with his blood
2007-04-20 16:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Emmanuel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let them know that their actions or spoken language hurt your feelings and that in the future if they can't say something positive then to keep their thoughts to their self.
A person who feeds off of putting others down physically or verbally is someone you don't need to be around. Let your feelings be known then ignore them.
I hope this helps you. There will always be rude people in life.
2007-04-20 16:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know that it hurts alot when someone says something bad to you the best thing is just ignore them that allways gets them they never like it when you ignore them and just leave and wish them luck cuz sooner or later they will pay.
2007-04-20 16:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dagoberto N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to ignore them, but if they wounded my heart I talk to my husband and work through it.....Try not to let the other person Know that they wounded me as well. It's better if you let it slide off like water of a duck's back.
They are hurting and want to hurt someone.....
2007-04-20 16:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they insult you just turn to them, say "i'm sorry you feel that way" with a big smile on your face! all they're trying to do is get a reaction and nothing aggravates a mean person more then knowing that they're not getting to you. kill them with kindness and you will win every time.
2007-04-20 16:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, you can talk to them and sort things out or walk away. Don't let friend push you around. I always keep in mind to treat them the way you want to be treated, WWJD and kill them with kindness.
I remember in middle school these girl always picked on me, never let me go in my locker, push down the stairs, took my things, made fun of me, threaten me, etc... I just stayed out of their way and didn't talk back or anything of all the things they did to me. In the end they became to respect me and things turned around. It's weird.
A coworker recently was training me to be a cashier, but she deliberately made me feel horrible saying thing to make me feel low or embarrassed and stuff in front of costumers. I wanted to kick her in her face or just walk away. Her actions spoke louder than words, she really hated me for no reason. I convened myself to be more pleasant and thoughtful even though I felt like sh** inside, she came to respect me more and didn't do it a again.
Also my friend, who I always hanged on with, was using me, made me jealous, took people away from me, lied and insulted to me and behind my back. I was a sucker and samethings kept happening. I learn to stay away from the people who make me ill. My friend came back and said sorry and stuff would do it all over again. I let her go, it was hard but it was for the best.
Never fight or anything, just be strong and don't let your guard down. Things will probably turn around for the best.
Hope this helps!
2007-04-20 16:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by scorpiontiger00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont continue to associate with that person if they cant respect you. You tell the person you are not going to continue to deal with nonsense.
2007-04-20 16:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by sharon s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Ignore them. They only do it because they know it bothers you. If you show them they don't bother you they'll eventualyy get bored.
2007-04-20 16:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by assunta81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to shove back when it comes to push and shove. Give it back to them. They'll either stop and be mad, or stop and get over it =)
2007-04-20 16:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋