in writing exactly what she wants me to do as far as remodeling goes in the house. I'll do whatever she wants, but I want a list. That's not too much to ask, right?
2007-04-20 08:44:08 · 15 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i kinda do
2007-04-20 08:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a second I thought you were talking about doing anything you want in the bedroom, my answer for that was going to be funny.
But no, you are not asking for to much. If your wife want something she should give you a list. Who is to say that you will remember everything she has requested. I know that when you forget something she will let you have it. Saying something like "Hello, you did not fix the table" or something sarcasm like "Thanks for painting the den". Writing it down just make your job easier, and keep the wife happy.
2007-04-20 15:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a wife that went through a remodel with my husband I wish we had sat down prior to starting and put everything in writing. I can't tell you how many times I would come home and he had chosen to do something that we had not even discussed. My advice is to one write everything down--with DETAILS! and to prioritize them. Does she want to paint the trim before you install it or after you've put it in, what color of grout do you want for the tile. I can't tell you how many fights we had because we just assumed we knew what the other wanted!
2007-04-20 15:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by adthomas2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree. Remodeling a house is just that. It's not an emotional thing. I'm sorry to say that you sound selfish. "I'll do this for you, but you have to do this for me"...kind of like "well, what's in it for me"? I don't think that's right, if my current significant other was like that with me, we wouldn't be together.
2007-04-20 16:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, but why a list? So she can't say you didn't do something, and you can point to the list and say it isn't on here. Can she add to it as she goes? LOL best of luck on that issue
2007-04-20 15:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not too much to ask for a list.
2007-04-20 15:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by pinky_lady_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked for way too much...
You should have provided her with some paper and a pencil too.
2007-04-20 15:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where ya been? You have the funniest questions. You da man.....YOu should submit, especially in the bedroom....
2007-04-20 15:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dang I was all ready for a sexual submsiion question LOL
2007-04-20 15:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by hi_stk_n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not to much to ask but don't complain after the list the Bible does say to summit but if you were as loving I don't think she would have a hard time summitting
2007-04-20 15:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no thats not not too much to ask for , being specific is better than for you totry and guess what she wants
2007-04-20 15:48:48 · answer #11 · answered by sami-joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋