you kick her out of your house with your baby? Thats my situation and now he acts like he wants me back but only for sex. I want the sex to but thats not all, i wanna still have a relationship with him but i doubt it'll last. (Really want to know what another guy would do in this same situation.)
2007-04-20 08:18:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it never would have happened. i would have treated you like the goddess that you seem to be.
feel free to im if you want to chat
2007-04-20 08:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
While those are wonderful traits, those things don't make a relationship right. The question should be about the relationship and the interaction between you on a personal level. It takes a lot to make a relationship work for the long haul. If all he wants you back for is sex and not to fix what ever is really wrong with your relationship then forget it. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you for the person you are and treats you the way you deserve. The fact he would kick you and your baby out means that more than likely you will be better off without him.
2007-04-20 15:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta be more to this story. What did you fight about most of the time?
It sounds like this is YOUR baby and not HIS. If this is the case, maybe you are a little bit desperate for a man and have chosen the wrong one. Read Laura Schlesinger's Book "Ten Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their Lives" You will find a few that apply to you I promise and hopefully you can learn from this.
Stop hopping into bed with guys. In the long run they won't appreciate you. You need to believe that you are more than that if you want them to believe it.
This is the same advice I will give my daughter when she is old enough.
2007-04-21 20:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by fwflyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is just treating you like a piece of meat.
If you go with your gut instinct it is probably telling you to run as fast and as far away from this guy as you can. Personally
if I was with you I would I would not have treated you like this.
Maybe that is why I have been married for 8yrs and my wife loves me to death. Back to your question I think you need to ask yourself if you want to be treated like a lady or a sex toy?.
This guy is pathetic you deserve better. He realizes that if doesn't get you back he will lose the chance to have sex with you, and well would have to start paying child support payments.
This guy is a jerk if this is his kid and you been together for awhile then this is a sad situation. Really it appears to me that you have one of the men in the world that are commitment phobic.
I wish you all the best and God Bless.
P.S. consider your baby in all this too do you want them to see that a man treating there lady like this is okay?
2007-04-20 15:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and Foremost I wouldn't kick you out of the house if you was handling your business inside the house. Your man is a "COWARD" And as a man I would beg for your forgiveness for doing such a thing to you and our baby. And if that all he wants is sex then you should move with some else like a relative or a close friend until he gets his priority together.
2007-04-20 15:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a complete ***, he does not deserve you if thats all he wants from you, let someother person do the stuff he is asking and move on, there will be a guy out there for you.
I would never do such a thing to a woman, it is a low act and he has no respect
2007-04-20 15:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by buster_medow 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What did you do him? You must have done something. Guys just don't do that. Especially if you are cooking, cleaning,....etc. like you say you are. However, he should not kick your baby out with you. If you cheated on him or something like that, I would kick you out but keep the baby. There's no reason for his/her life to change.
2007-04-20 15:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by chesspoker21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God no, but if and this is a big IF, if she cheated on me, I probably would. If the guy wants only sex, that's not a relationship. Sex gets old very quickly. You need more!!! If there are personality problems, it probably won't work out.
You can always give me a call, too :)
2007-04-20 15:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by olorin359 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get sex elsewhere. Respect yourself first and others will respect you. Don't come running back to him just for the sex. If you know in your heart it won't last, then it will all be just a waste of time.
2007-04-20 15:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by bored_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd never kick my child out of my home regardless of any other circumstances! Really i would just walk away and by the time he realizes what he's lost it would hopefully be too late. He don't deserve you if you ain't done anything wrong.
2007-04-20 15:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blow the guy off and get some counseling, because obviously you have some problems. But then there's always two sides to every story too, and that could be, what did you do to this guy?? **** somebody behind his back??
2007-04-20 15:33:15 · answer #11 · answered by Jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋