2007-04-20 07:04:44 · 39 answers · asked by Neshia M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That varies on what you consider flirting...and how you'd feel if your partner "flirted" in the same manner with someone else.
2007-04-20 07:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are the one doing the flirting how much respect is that giving your partner?
If the shoe was on the other foot would you be happy with the situation?
Flirting is fun when two people enjoy it.
If it is hurting someone's significant other then it is a tool that is being used to hurt someone.
It may be corny but always remember -
Do unto others as you would have done unto you
Be nice - it's nice!
2007-04-20 07:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by isobellistowel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go as far as to say it's cheating but it's in the same ball park. When married women flirt with me all I can think is "I feel bad for your husband." It sends the wrong message so I wouldn't like it if my wife flirted with anyone.....good question.
2007-04-20 07:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your motive for flirting? What is your main goal for doing that? It's basically a way to spark somebody's interest. Whether or not you're trying to do it, you're giving off the vibe that you're looking to possibly date one of them. There's no reason for that when you're in a relationship. It's just a useless act. You don't need attention by flirting. It's in a small sense trying to be somebody you're not to get the attention you "desire".
2007-04-20 07:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by heath e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if it's just mild flirting then there's no harm. You need to be careful that it doesn't progress to heavy flirting or more. That's just me though. I'm a bit old fashioned in that way.
2007-04-20 07:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I interpret flirting (when you are in a monogamous relationship) to be deceptive to TWO parties:
Your beau
The "other fella".
So, it's just not a good idea. Best be honest & fair to your beau and just focus on him.
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2007-04-20 08:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like it's cheating, then it is. Ask your concience. If you really feel OK about it, then it must not really mean anything or be a threat to your relationship. You've asked the question though, so my guess is you feel guilty about it and shouldn't do it.
2007-04-20 07:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by anjazarovitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not as long a you all know it is nothing more than flirting/ having fun. as long as your partner knows you are only flirting / having fun & you aren't going anywhere . there is nothing to worry about. if your relationship isn't strong then there is a question to ask yourself is the relationship worth it? gool luck
2007-04-20 07:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by mom lost for answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I suppose it all depends on the situation, persons involved, and degree of flirting (ex. A little harmless chatter at a party is no big deal, IMHO, but heavy duty schmoozing with an ex, or a rival is hurtful, disloyal, and a no-no...)
2007-04-20 07:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by Artemisia G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Borderline.
If you're in a relationship, why flirt anyway?
2007-04-20 07:08:17 · answer #10 · answered by SamCam 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋