My first suggestion is what Dalice already suggested. After baby is latched and it doesn't seem like a deep enough latch try 1) gently pull her chin down so that the mouth opens wider and 2) take a finger and flip her lips up so that they are flared. If all else fails pull her off and try again. If it makes her mad then she'll definitely have her mouth open wide and you can just put then breast in then. Finally, you could brush your nipple in an up to down motion on her bottom lip...it encourages the baby to open up. If you nurse too often with a bad latch not only will you get sore nipples but you will be more likely to stop breastfeeding before you had wanted to. Good luck and great decision to want to breastfeed your baby!
2007-04-20 07:21:27
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answered by JordanB 4
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I nursed four girls for two years each. I never had this problem. She must be getting some of the aroela because she would not be able to maintain suction if she wasn't. I don't know how often you nurse her but maybe try letting her work up her appetite a little more if you aren't. This way she will open her mouth more naturally in strong anticipation of knowing the breast is coming.While her mouth is open fullest hold your breast like from underneath and guiding the whole thing into her mouth. Know what I mean. Instead of letting her root around and find it take more control of the situation and guide it to her. Touch her cheek and lips with your breast and she should open wide, then cup your breast and pretend like you are going to put the whole breast in her mouth. Once she does get the hold of more she will find that it is easier for her and will quickly learn it's the best way to go. I hope you can get a sense of what I mean. It's a hard thing to try to describe. Sometimes just a change in position can help too. Don't give up, you are doing the best thing you can do for your baby right now. I suffered horribly sore nipples each time for 6 or 7 weeks and then all was fine but oh how that hurt when they first latched on. Oh, my! Try reading to her while she is nursing or singing to her, anything that relaxed you both will improve the situation. Good Luck.
2007-04-20 07:30:27
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answered by Born2Bloom 4
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I have 3 children my 1st I feed until she was 4 months 2ND until 14 months (she was hard to ween) and my 10 old is still breastfeeding. I would call the lactation consultant at the hospital you delivered if they don't have one ask your ob for a referral BC although everyone will give you ways that worked it will be easier for you and her to have someone show you with her being there.
Enough of that what I had to do was let the baby "want your breast"( use your finger to touch her cheek it is a natural reflex for a baby to open her mouth) and pull her back a little that will make her open her mouth a lil more then let her latch on also what I have had to do was use my finger and kind of push my nipple in a lil farther...my own idea BC my son wouldn't ever open his mouth and I would CRY when he would latch on. Don't give up you can do it try some lanolin when baby is done to help you heal if there is any cracking or bleeding.... I wish you the best... feel free to email if you have any other questions(or need support ) I really hope I could help breastfeeding is the most natural thing but it can be SO hard sometimes:)
2007-04-20 07:17:11
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answered by ? 2
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Stroke the bottom lip with your nipple and when she opens her mouth wide pull her gently to your breast. If she starts latch on to your nipple break it by inserting your little finger and removing your breast. Don't let her get away with nipple feeding. And again...when she is slightly older..~2-3 months she'll get the hang of it :)
2007-04-20 07:23:23
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answered by shobana 2
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Pull her off, and wait until she makes a big open mouth. I know, this is really hard, but they are smart and they figure it out pretty quickly! They are like little baby birdies! Tell her "Open! Open!" If she latches on to just the end of the nipple, pull her off, and try it again. It takes a while, but before you know it she'll be nursing like a pro. It took me 6 weeks of trying before my baby was able to nurse succesfully, and now, she's been nursing for 18 months! I love it! It's a wonderful way to bond.
2007-04-20 07:21:01
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answered by purplebinky 4
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What's already been said is pretty good advice. Patience is key here, just break the latch (stick your finger in the side of her mouth and re-latch until she opens wide enough. Best of luck.
2007-04-20 07:33:31
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answered by duckygrl21 5
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she's no longer feeling your milk authentic away, that's troublesome her. try massaging your breasts slightly to get a letdown to ensue earlier she latches on -- my son did the authentic comparable element. whilst they're youthful, they nurse for 5-10 seconds or so and then your letdown happens and then they get milk. she's probable latching on and not getting something and then getting pissed off. attempt to rub down your breasts earlier she feeds to set off a letdown or attempt to feed her earlier you comprehend she would be hungry (if obtainable -- my son on no account had a predictable schedule at this age so it would no longer be obtainable) -- yet whilst she feeds each hour and a a million/2, placed her on your boob at an hour and or an hour 15 minutes. she heavily isn't ravenous and he or she'll be extra affected person for the letdown. this may be a typical concern. she'll "get it" and comprehend what's occurring in yet another few weeks. that's tricky yet keep going -- you're doing each little thing splendidly. once you have have been given over furnish and it takes slightly to enable down and you have have been given an impatient toddler who would not comprehend that the milk is going to return -- it particularly is tricky. it is common. in basic terms provide it time. I on no account had to do any specific carry with this methodology the two, as quickly as I discovered it grow to be the toddler's concern and not mine, hah. you're doing amazing -- keep on.
2016-10-03 07:31:29
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answered by ? 4
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Stick your finger next to your nipple and into her mouth as she latches on, prying it open a little more, then pull your finger out.
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2007-04-20 07:09:19
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answered by non_apologetic_american 4
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Don't give her the boob unless her mouth is WIIIIDE open. She will open wide if you withhold the nipple near her mouth. Be patient-she'll open wider.
2007-04-20 07:08:34
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answered by Dalice Nelson 6
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When my second child did this, I just gently pushed downward on his chin so that his mouth was wide open before he latched on.
2007-04-20 07:15:10
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answered by mamasquirrel 5
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