I'm married and want to sleep with a woman. Is that wrong.?

Answer 1

Yes.

Answer 2

Honestly sweety, morality is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has their own set of values, and its up to you and your partner to make that decision.

My husband and I have an open type of relationship where I can sleep with women, (And he gets to join in every once in a while). It works out great for us. But we also have a set of rules to abide by that are not broken, EVER.

1. If you choose to have a threesome, or wish to experiment with another woman, talk to yous spouse. Get their thoughts and ideas on the matter.

2. If you choose to have a threesome, for the first time, do it in a neutral area, a hotel room etc. Somewhere comfortable for all parties. You may want to have a female that you don't know well, someone that is looking for the same type of pleasure as you, without the commitment.

3. NEVER EVER try to have a three way relationship. Feelings get hurt, jealousy rears it's ugly head. That is the fastest way to lose a partner.

4. If you're a woman and are thinking of experimenting with another woman alone, make sure she is a friend. Someone that you are comfortable with. This may seem like it might make it awkward later, but it will put you at ease, and help you through your nervousness at your first time.

Remember that communication is key. If you want to try this, discuss it. Men are usually pretty accepting about bi sexuality in women. (Wish they were in men as well. but anyhoo..)

Good Luck! And remember Morality is what you make of it. Life is too short to second guess yourself. ALways try something twice. The first time to experiment, the second time to experience. ;-)

Answer 3

In the context of your marriage Yes! Your marriage vow probably stated "Forsaking ALL Others." If you sleep with ANYONE you are going against that vow.

You should sincerely look within your self and decide do you want to stay married or do you want to sleep with women more. If it's the latter then divorce your husband and go on with your life.

Answer 4

It is only wrong because you are married, unless the woman you want to sleep with is your spouse.

Answer 5

I assume you are a woman or a gay man looking to branch out.
If you are married anything you do with anyone else is wrong (sexually)
If you have a hubby then asks if she could join in
or
if you have a wife then ask if you could have a threesome
Simple:)

Answer 6

Well whether or not you are a man or a woman it doesnt matter, you should have experimented before you got married. You will be setting yourself up for failure in the end, guarenteed!!

Answer 7

i assume your the wife right cause im married and do sleep with a woman and shes my wife. but if you must why not have a 3some with your man and if your a dude make sure your wife doesn't find out! Jk hell no its not ok cheating never is! ok my wife left the room again tear that **** up!

Answer 8

it is wrong not because you want to sleep with a woman but because you are thinking in cheating, and that is wrong.

Answer 9

not if the woman is your wife.

wanting to sleep with someone else isn't necessary wrong (not great though). What would be wrong is if you actually DID sleep with another woman.

Answer 10

Yes, it's definitely wrong! You are married so having sex with any body that would be adultery and if your gay it is a sin, marriage is only suppose to be between a man and a women. Don't see how it could not! Plus what would your spouse say, what if your spouse did that to you, what you think. I think if you are married and you love that person, you should be honest and respect that person.

Answer 11

Actually, I think you all are misunderstanding. I believe it is a woman asking the question or a gay man. Either way it is a natural curiousity and one that you see more and more in today's society. I would suggest talking to your spouse about your curiousities.