I did last night, but I didnt feel bad.
He asked a question and I told him what was on my mind. It wasnt nice, but he asked.
I'm I a wrong person?
2007-04-20 06:02:08 · 30 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
::::: I DIDNT GIVE NO ONE THUMBS DOWN::::
SOME OTHER LOSER WITH NO LIFE DID...
2007-04-20 06:15:36 · update #1
Never feel bad for sharing your true feelings.There are a lot of people in the world that dont share their real feelings.Truth is.. feelings always catch up with you and what you couldnt say before could cause more damage in the long run.So, yes! you were right to do so!
As far as you being a wrong person for not feeling bad about it!
They are YOUR feelings! and you should never apologize for them.Of course we all wish we could sugar coat everything to spare feelings, but in the real world its not feesable!
As far as human emotions go... There could have been a million reasons why you didnt feel bad! As far as we know... he could have done something to hurt you a long time ago and are just now expressing your feelings about it!
It doesnt matter how you reacted, you spoke what was on your mind! That doesnt make you a bad person and when your boyfriend or husband gets over the initial shock! He thank you for it!
2007-04-20 06:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by stargazerlilly79 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In all the years we have been together I'm sure my husband has cried over things I have done (but I've never seen him)
The only time I've ever really made him cry was when we went to______ & the entertainment/magician asked me to pick a name, write it down, show it to the audiance, fold it up & hand it back to him (the magician)...the magician told me he was going to guess the name & sure enuf he did...only it wasnt my husbands name...it was my step-dads-who passed away 4yrs ago. That totally freaked me out & I started balling...my husband cried too.
As far as telling your husband what was on your mind...its a good thing to have an open line of communication & No you are not wrong for doing it! You go girl!
2007-04-20 06:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by east2west92 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i assume he might desire to be incredibly disenchanted approximately this finished factor. It replaced into very incorrect for him to accuse you in this kind of way. As a father he could have been supportive yet possibly you're able to provide him it sluggish for him to settle for this. possibly he has long undergone lots interior the previous like with your mum and understanding you're leaving him too, is like deju vu for him. in case you provide him time, possibly communicate this out with him. convey your self. tell him the way it extremely is not significant what your sexual orientation is given which you will continuously love your him. yet you may't stay with him if all he does is criticize you and make you sense undesirable approximately your self. it extremely isn't any longer your fault. He needs you to be happy, astonishing? i'm particular he loves you yet i assume it incredibly is slightly perplexing for individuals on the start to settle for their toddlers who's "distinctive". reliable good fortune chum
2016-10-28 13:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have on several occasions. He is not a punk, the truth can just sometimes hurt. And hurt it does. You are not a bad person. Guys make girls cry all of the time.
2007-04-20 06:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you told him the truth, then you didn't do anything wrong. I made my ex-husband cry so much that he actually vomited from it a few times. He couldn't handle me saying that I wanted to leave him...poor guy.
2007-04-20 06:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not on purpose. But men cry. Are you wrong? I would have to know what you told him the truth about. Seriously.
2007-04-20 06:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I made my now ex-husband cry once. When I confronted him about his abuse and said I was getting a divorce. He bawled like a baby and I did not feel one bit bad.
2007-04-20 06:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yea i have.it felt bad but he eventually got over it.and no your not a bad person, if he didn't want to know what was on your mind then he wouldn't have asked.
2007-04-20 06:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just wrong that you don't feel a little bad about it, or the way he felt.
2007-04-20 06:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by #2 in the oven 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
All the time.
2007-04-20 06:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋