I know this man who I have been crushing since last year. I knew from the moment I met him that he was unique by just the way he looked at me. I see him at my college every week or so and he has complimented me on wearing certain colors to being intelligent. The way he looks at me suggests that he enjoys looking at me. But I just could be nervous when I am around him. Can anyone give me a clear example of what details I could look for in his face to give me more of an idea of what he maybe thinking and or feeling>? (i.e) Facial reading, expressions, the raising of an eyebrow? It would be great to get a serious answer. Thanks.
2007-04-20 03:57:28 · 7 answers · asked by djzlyric 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He is not married and has made it a point to tell me that he is single many times but has not expressed interest in anyone. I would ask him out but he is in a position of authority and that would be considered fraternizing. He has also inquired several times about my kids' father. He even says he considers me an influential person among my peers. But some of you are right, he maybe just has a sexy look to him naturally! I still can keep on wishing. He won't be my 'authority' for long. This summer I will move on to a different college.
2007-04-20 04:31:36 · update #1
True the best way to find out is to ask... but you don't wanna ask unless you sure, right? :)
Try watching his eyebrows when you see him. When we see the person we like, our eyebrows raise, but only for a second, so try and be quick!
Another thing to look for is the eyes. Our pupils dilate when we see someone we like.
Body lanuage is also important. Does he turn his body towards you? Does he mimick you?
Look to see if he is nervous by perhaps he is playing with a chain or car key for example.
If he has complimented you, that's a good sign! Men don't often compliment (well not the ones I know!) unless they mean it, and to the right person..
Perhaps tell him you really want to see this film, but your friends are busy. See how he reacts to that.
There are books about body lanuage, and you can use the net to find tips, and flirting tips. The best thing though is to trust your feelings. If your tummy flips when you see him, chances are his does too! I think you stand a chance, don't be nervous, go for it!
Good Luck!!
2007-04-20 04:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be married so thats why even though he wants you he isnt making any more moves try a simple flirt like a long stare in his eyes and that other person is wrong men signal all their moves ahead of time men make the chase but women do the catching of the prey so look hard into his eyes he'll get the message also look for a ring or a shadow on his finger as a clue
2007-04-20 04:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to find out if he likes you is to just be up front about it. why must you know?...just for the sake of knowing? if i were you, i would come up with an event....say an important dinner or some get together or something and mention to him that you don't have a date. this is a perfect opportunity for the both of you to get what you want . he may be shy and not say anything...in which case you will need more patience or be more up front. sometimes shy guys need the woman to be the aggressor. Good Luck
2007-04-20 04:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by predatorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he is interested you, he will approach you with "Say, Baby, my name is Russell, your opportunity of a lifetime." Otherwise, he's just got a staring problem. Don't believe that crap about looks and glances, if he wants you, he's going to come and get you. Guys don't speak in code like women do. Good luck.
2007-04-20 04:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget facial readings and expressions. Why don't you try talking to him. He may be apprehensive for fear of rejection, that's a common male trait. After a year what have you got to lose.
2007-04-20 04:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Fern O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be to some extent but there are some people who look at others in such a way that u will think they are interested in u... so be careful and confirm that he likes u... gd luck... i dont think looks are completely reliable... if he talks to u it's a different thing...
2007-04-20 04:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you can just tell by that look. i know that look, its the look that my boyfriend had when i first met him. he always had this look on his face and somehow i could just tell that he loved me. i dont really know how to describe it, its in the eyes.
2007-04-20 05:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by cyndaylou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋