I am a petite women with small B breasts. I like my breasts or at least I did but the more women getting fake breasts the less adequate and attractive I feel. 3 of my friends have them and a 4th one is getting them next week. I don't want to get them done but feel pressured. Will I be the last women on earth with small breasts? Why is it that everyone needs fake breasts now? Women really do it for other people. No one does it for themselves. Everyone wants to look sexy for other people to look at them and I will admit it that I do too but I don't feel sexy anymore with my small breasts. I read all over the internet that men prefer natural breasts weather small or large so then who are women really getting implants for if men are already happy with the way we are?
2007-04-20 01:08:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Foget the damn world...be happy with what god gave you!!
2007-04-20 02:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, let me clear up the misperception about men liking natural breasts. It's not that men prefer natural breasts over implants; it's more that men prefer NICE natural breasts over implants. From my experiences, men prefer tastefully done, natural-looking implants over a complete flat chest or small saggy "udder-like" breasts. Now if guys had to choose between perky natural C cups versus similar-looking fake C cups, they'd choose natural handsdown, mostly because they're genuine/real. Also, I think that guys like to say that they don't like implants so that they appear "nice & sensitive"(therefore easier to attract girls?); or as a way to try and bring down the augmented girl's confidence, since they think that she was probably lacking a lot of confidence if she made the decision to get implants. What can I say: guys are deceptive jerks at times.
There are many reasons that girls feel that they NEED implants. I think most girls that get implants are *extremely* small-chested beforehand, like an AA or A, basically a size that would make your small B cups look busty in comparison. These girls feel disproportionate(esp if they have a pear shaped figure), and they might have trouble fitting nicely into certain clothes such as sundresses, bikinis, or certain tops that have more material/"give" in the chest area.
Another common reason that girls feel that they NEED implants is due to breast size decrease. This occurs in girls that either lose a lot of weight, or breastfeed their children. It results in their boobs going down a few cup sizes, and then they are left with excess skin and sagginess, hence the "udder" look.
Then again, there are girls that don't really *need* implants, but want to have huge boobs to either get attention, make more money in the porn/modelling/stripclub industries, or to feel better about themselves because they lack confidence in some areas. There are some girls that also experience the delusional "dysmorphia," where they are convinced that they aren't curvy enough, no matter how big their boobs are; these are usually the girls that keep upgrading their implants to bigger ones every few years.
A small B-cup really isn't all that small. It's a little smaller than the average, but a B-cup is SOMETHING. I wouldn't consider breasts to be super-small unless they are AA or small-to-mid A cups. Even then, I've seen very petite thin girls with full A cups that look proportionate. I think breasts are all about proportions. If you are a thin girl with a small build, I'd say that B cups probably look great on you; but if you're a heavier-set girl with wide hips and a curby butt, a small B probably isn't enough to balance out your proportions. If you liked your size before your friends got implants, I'd say don't get your boobs done. Only get them done if you yourself feel that you'd look better, or if you have problems fitting into clothing(bikinis, strappy dresses, etc).
2007-04-20 08:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by buffalo_billz_2003 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel but am significantly smaller than you are. I live in the dorms and go to school in L.A. and it doesn't feel good to be the only one around with small breasts. My boyfriend loves them and I don't. I would be one of those to get the implants, but as for me I'll get them for myself. It's been something I've been wanting to do for quite some time now. I understand that most females want the attention, but as for me I want to be able to shop at a store and buy the nice tops on the rack instead of the usual, fitted t-shirt. That's why I want them and probably deep down, you would want them for the same boost of confidence to feel more feminine and be able to where anything you want. Don't get sucked up in the wrong purpose of implants. Men can care less if they are fake or not. As long as they're big enough for them, they don't care.
2007-04-20 12:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by girl_is_depeche 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you're the perfect size for you. i'd love to be a "b" again. i was always a curvy woman and the "b" was great. as a petite women, i think anything larger would look out of preportion and unatural. don't worry about what the others are doing. why would you feel pressured to follow along? perhaps they have a poor image of themselves and are falling for the media hype of what a woman should look like.
men are visual. yeah they ,for the most part, like large breast's but, all the guys i know would rather they be the real thing. a women who is happy with her appearance and self assured is more of a turn on than one who worries about it constantly and feels the need to make changes.
2007-04-20 09:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that a lot of people are having them, but remember not everyone does them for someone else. I didn't get them to make someone else happy, I did it for me and for other personal reasons. I always tell people that you should get them only if you are 100% sure you want them, not for someone else. The thing about it is it is so weird to have a foreign object in your body and if I could get rid of them I would, but it's not possible for me.
2007-04-20 08:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some of us guys LIKE little boobs! If I can find them in the dark, they're big enough.
Plus, I'd rather play with the small real thing than some humungous artificial weather balloons.
If you like them, keep them as you grew them.
2007-04-20 16:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Paul P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of like when girls get dressed up at clubs, they don't do it for the men they do it for the girls. You guys(i mean that in non gender kind of way) are crazy.
2007-04-20 13:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋