He died 2 yrs back. I had a major nightmare of him & it was the worst nightmare i ever had in my entire life and it was real vivid. That was some 1 n half years back.
I just dreamt of him again n this time it was worse, I saw he was dying and he wanted to make out with me b4 dying. I was reluctantly willing as he was dying and i went 2 a nun to confess too but did not. Although in real life im a hindu girl.
Please if someone knows what the hell can be the meaningbehind such gruesome dreams of my dad then please tell me. I wasent close to my dad in his last 5-6 years.
2007-04-20 00:38:08 · 8 answers · asked by vicious_witch 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
My mom also dreamt of her dead uncle that time, so she went to pray for him, and after that, everything was resolved!
2007-04-20 00:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie Ng 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is more than normal to have these dreams. You know girls have a subconscious desire for their father. I know you don't accept it, nor do I. That's why it is subconscious and it doesn't mean you are a pervert or anything. You wouldn't have it in real life. In addition to that, your dad is dead, and you miss him and his death is stressing you, and you have nightmares about him. Don't worry, just come to terms with the fact that he was your dad, you loved him and he is dead now. Perhaps not being close to him makes things worse, because deep down you think you've lost the time you had with him, but I am sure you know that he loved you and he knew you loved him. I'm sorry for your loss, but don't worry about the dreams and move on. Rationalizing the dreams will help you stop seeing them. Don't try to push them back to the subconscious, face them and come to terms with his death and with your feelings.
2007-04-20 07:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are in the spot your in about this. The very best thing you can do is to see a therapist for an evaluation. There is nothing to fear about being evaluated and the process itself can help you and the therapist discover why you are having such a dream. No one here in cyberspace is really qualified to make a diagnosis based on one question. It is far better that you be able to have one-on-one sessions with a qualified professional. That way its just you and them without distraction.
I wish you the very best.
2007-04-20 07:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
U must forgive ur Dad for the hurt he caused to u as u say u were not close to him 5-6 years before his death. Before going to bed just say ur prayer and at the end drink some water, hold water in ur mouth and say " Under divine presence I sincerely forgive u dad for whatever hurt u caused me and I seek ur forgiveness for whatever hurt I caused u" gulp down the water. Repeat two times more in the same way and in ur mind just feel that ur dad is now peaceful as u have forgiven him and he has forgiven u. Say dad pl. be happy and peaceful and I forgive u for everything. At any time when u think of ur dad just feel the happy relationship with him and thank god for making ur dad peaceful and happy. U must do this at least for 11 days continuously so that the spirit goes to its rightful place. If u do not forgive then u will remain disturbed and may be in ur next birth u will meet him again. So must forgive for ur own good and for permanent disconnection from such souls as have made u unhappy. I pray for ur happiness.
2007-04-20 08:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by sudershan Guddy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry for you. Don't feel miserable. And from now on, treasure the relatives you still have. Don't be disturbed, ok? Did you do a single thing wrong.? If you did (as in maybe purposely ignored your dad when he wanted to be close to you) , just talk to someone, like a family member, perhaps your mom, tell him/her everything. You'll feel better. orry if I've offended you in any way but this is one tough question.
2007-04-20 07:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must be an imprint of a subconcious memory as a dream but the relation between that memory and youre dream can depend on if you've had alot of stress or something reminded you of him subconciously.
2007-04-20 07:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by redblade20xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your father thought of you as his wife in his last few days/weeks and just wanted to get close for the last time.
I`m sure you must be taking this the wrong way, but just remember him of the good things that you all did as a family and in time your bad dreams will disperse...
2007-04-20 07:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by chris murray 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably a site like http://www.ihadadreamlastnight.com will help you out. There is a lot of content regarding dreams there
2007-04-22 14:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by expertdreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋