me mates asked me to go to england with them and i can't go and they keep on about it and one of my mates said today "where is ur bags?" even tho she no's i can't go. i found out yesterday her and her bf was planing when i get drunk they was doin the get me down to my underware and push me into a guys room (he loves girls, if u get me) so really she wants me to get ....................(u no what goes there and i hate that word) ever since me other mate told me what she was goin to do i hate her but then again i ddon't want to loose her as a mate.
i can't stop thinking about it and its really doing my ed in . my mates keep asking me what but i say nothing is on my mind (if u get me).
its about my other mate?
what i do is i keep everything locked inside but i'm sick of it cos i loose it and i really don't want too.
right now i feel like crying adn looseing it but then again i don't what should i do i'm sick of keeping everything looked i side.
2007-04-20 00:28:11 · 18 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is an abusive bully we're talking about here. And you don't want to "lose her as a mate". Shesh, some people were just born to be doormats, weren't they.
2007-04-20 00:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to lose your friend. If she was willing to do this to you, she isnt a true friend, and isnt concerend for your safety and wellbeing.
Try not to bottle things up. Why not join a gym, a boxing class or something. You may be more comfortable releasing your frustrations that way, and maybe will meet some new decent friends.
If you need time to think about your friendship, avoid your friend and her BF. It must be hard to accept that your friend is not a true one, but at least you have a decent enough mate, in the one who warned you. Dont let something serious happen before you dump this friend.
Best of luck!
2007-04-20 00:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by Chick78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ru crazy or what? This so called friend is not at all ur friend. If she was she would have never thought doing something that bad to u. Ignore her totally avoid her. These kind of people come across as friend and we always give them a benefit of doubts.. sometimes bcoz we have a good time with them and sometimes bcoz they had said or did something good with us in the past but u know thats out good quality that we think of them good even though we know they have changed and they are no good. we deny to accept what our mind says and follow what our hearts says. She has a boy friend now so maybe her mind is working how her boy friend wants it to work. Just forget her and have some nice friends.
2007-04-20 02:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by smile always 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a mate. Don't you worry about losing her, you want to ditch her straight away, you do not need friends like that !!!! Stop bothering with her immediately before she gets you in to a situation that you don't want to be in. Trust me, you do not want people like this in your life. Do not be upset about it, she is a low life, scum of the earth. Concentrate on your other mates, your true friends. Dont' have it out with your so called friend cos she will take great satisfaction that she has provoked a reaction from you. Just walk away from her & ignore her. Get her out of your life & her idiot boyfriend.
2007-04-20 01:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by EmmaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do is hold everything inside you will end up making yourself physical sick trust me I have been there. You need to confront her and tell her what you heard and that a true friend would not do this to you and that you are not a whore to get f-- and if this behavior continues the friendship is over. You don't need losers like this in your life.
2007-04-20 00:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keeping things bottled up will only drive you grazy the more you think about it the more hurt you will become,you need to speak to her about it and ask her why she would want to do this?how would she feel if it was the other way round? but you sound like you have got you head screwed on so ask yourself this do you really devalue yourself enough to be friends with this girl? you will make new friends,proper friends ones that will care and respect you! i really hope things work out for you just belive in yourself and you will soon realise you are worth much more then your so called friend likes to think.good luck
2007-04-20 00:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by mish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some mates hey? If they're making you upset don't associate with them. Tell them straight that you are not going with them and tell them if they keep asking you will not talk again. Then follow it through. Don't be bullied. Tell your parents or someone you can trust who can also protect you.
2007-04-20 00:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by sexy-star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't find one reason for you to still keep her as a friend
she's planing to hurt you and you don't wanna lose her
Be tolerant but don't be an idiot
as for things locked inside try to find someone close to you to talk to not that bit*h your "supposed" friend
2007-04-23 21:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sherif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need a hug *hugs* i hope u can find better friends that would neer even think about doin that kind of thing to u.
i really wish u well and i hope u can find some good comforting Friends!
Good Luck
2007-04-20 01:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by sassysammy92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don`t say where you are - obviously not in england - take it you`re in america then...? You better stay there and be glad when they`ve set sail for england - so to speak - coz my god, friends like this you do not need my love.
2007-04-20 00:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋