I have been hearing alot of my friends talk about how thier husbands like for them to stick their fingers in their husbands behinds and massage their prostates or something. They say that it gets them really in the mood.
Is this true? And if it is true how would I go about trying it out on my husband, that is if he is game. I mean.. Is there a certain spot in there that you press on, where is it located etc.?
Thank you for any answers
2007-04-20 00:07:05 · 9 answers · asked by Princess Me 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Yes i have heard of that, But i thinks its gross,,lol I wouldnt do it!
2007-04-20 00:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by kbrown1971 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow you have a lucky husband.
Ummm.........different people enjoy different things. Many women also enjoy anal play.
Often the first time is a matter of being very gentle (anal play in porn videos is usually not a good example).
You need to talk to him about it and say what you have heard. It sounds like you both like to explore in your sex life.
Firslty, if you have long fingernails, he may find it a little painful. So you might want to invest in some anal toys.
Some people just enjoy rimming (licking the outside) or gentle probings, others want it all the way in. For some men, the prostate is the male g-spot and if you find it, he will tell you.
Often the first time should just be gentle probing, getting used to the idea. Though some ladies will introduce the finger in the anus while giving a ********.
You may find it a little messy back there, so if it is something you want to do often you might want to consider an enema first (which some people find exciting as well).
Remember, sex is a many varied experience. So don't expect a single thing to turn on your husband, and the mind matters more than the body.
2007-04-20 00:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by flingebunt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some like it, and some do not. Ask him first. There is no mystery to reaching the prostate. Just go straight in, and you will touch it. I suggest you use your middle finger or a sex toy. Either will do the trick. Good luck.
Chow!!
2007-04-20 02:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by No one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The prostate gland is fairly obvious, it's relatively towards the "deeper" end of the anal opening and would feel slightly spongey. As for whether they like it it's really a personal thing but it is an erotic point, that's why anal sex works.
2007-04-20 00:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by cycerical 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's cool that you are wanting to do this for him. My only tip would be to make sure he knows it's coming. An unexpected finger up the hiney may produce a mess.
2007-04-20 05:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's true and it feels great.
Just lube up your finger and push it up there.
You'll know when you're hitting the right spot by the smile
on his face. And no, it doesn't make him gay.
2007-04-20 00:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to this it all depends on the guy....alot of guys are to affraid to try anything anal...but some are willing to try....i would say talkk to your husband and see if he would be comfortable trying something new......i have let my girl do it and its ******* great..
2007-04-20 02:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but you must observe whether your husband really enjoy it. if not, you should stop.
2007-04-20 02:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by zodiaccyber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah my girl tried that..no thank ya.
2007-04-20 06:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋