I am only just begining my journey as a solitary wiccan. I have a high priest friend helping me learn. I know i have 'come home' and i am on the right path. My children aged 3,7,14, are very interested. I dont want them to do this just because i am, but i am pleased in my heart. I have read the following..............Teach only what you know, to the best of your ability, to those students who you choose, but teach not to those who would use your instructions for destruction or control. Also, teach not to boost pride, forever remember: She who teaches out of love shall be enfolded in the arms of the Goddess and God.
I do not know how to move forward with them... or should i ask them to wait and observe only untill they are older? I am seeking opinions on this topic...anything would be helpfull!
Blessed Be)o(
2007-04-19 21:59:54 · 21 answers · asked by *~Ariel Brigalow Moondust~* 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i should add that i am happy to explain, but i should of asked should i let them be involved in ritual and casting...
2007-04-19 22:06:04 · update #1
Stephanie, thank you ! Will you get in touch with me, as i have a few more specific questions??
2007-04-19 22:07:57 · update #2
The themes of Wicca are generally quite adult -- are you sure this is appropriate for young children? (I'm thinking in particular of things like the Lesser Great Rite and the sexual symbolism of Beltane.)
I would say that if you are determined to have them in circle with you, have them only observe. Children of those ages are not really capable of the energy focus necessary to carry out most portions of a Wiccan rite. It might be a good idea to start them learning mindfulness and meditation exercises now, to train their minds and wills so that they can function in-circle later on. Having them read books about Wicca might also be a good way to go.
If you have any further questions, please feel free to email me.
2007-04-20 10:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by prairiecrow 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Children are considered old enough to participate in ritual at 13, however, they need to be initiated before taking part in any rituals. Perhaps you should allow your children to observe a sabbat or two for the moment; after giving them ample time to decide if this is the choice for them, then you can initiate your child and the child can take part in the rituals.
2007-04-19 23:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Enslavementalitheist 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think those Wiccan guidelines sound okay, but I think they are missing "Teach only those who have the ability to consent to be taught." (Talking spirituality here, rather than whether to put a fork in a powerpoint.)
You are their mother. It's fine to teach by example, but spiritual beliefs are something that you grow into, and can only authentically come from within. As a parent it is all too easy to cross the boundary between wanting your child to develop their own deep authenticity and imposing your own.
Be very, very careful.
2007-04-19 22:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Teach only what they can understand, and what you understand well enough to teach. A 14 yr old will be aware enough to learn and participate. The younger children prob'ly won't be able to participate.
If you have a High Priest, this is a question he must answer.
The knowledge of any religion comes from the storys surrounding it. Tell stories. Explain what you can. And learn about and share whatever your children show an interest in.
2007-04-19 22:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by bahbdorje 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think there are worse religions they could show an interest in. If they ask questions answer them honestly and let them come to their own conclusions. I have just started to learn more about Wicca myself and it seems like a very peaceful, positive religion. At the end of the day, they should have a choice and if they decide to finally choose something different then so be it. I think that if a religion encourages a person to be kind, courteous and respectful then, regardless of what religion it is, you can be thankful.
2007-04-19 22:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Helen B 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Yes the younger the better.I did with my girls when they get older they will decide.But let them know now and if they wont to continue they will be way ahead there is a lot to learn Blessed Be
2007-04-20 03:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by freddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, Wicca is not a religion it is a cult. Second it is an aberration of nature not a source from it. As a former wiccan priest I am well versed in their naturalistic fokelore and it took years to undo the teachings I received as a child. I travel teachiing ow to overcome the lie of wicca and the failed philosophy of the earth goddess. Your high priest of course will call me a negative balance and influence in your life but ask him or her the most important questions of life, who is God and you will get about 100 answers when there is only 1. Trust me, do NOT harm your kids like that, you will regret it later.
2007-04-19 22:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
If it is your way then yes however - I am in favor of children learning the full spectrum of beliefs. They will be bombarded with Christianity at school.
2007-04-19 22:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Freethinking Liberal 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not exclusively, of course. Children need variation to become well rounded, well cultured.
2007-04-19 22:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Invisible_Flags 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your going to teach religion to your children why not teach all religions? let them choose one later in life, when they can reason about questions concerning the universe, and death, ect, for themselves.
2007-04-19 22:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋