How do i improve my image?

Question

I am shy and not very confident at the moment and dont know what ot do to boost myself. I try and make sure i look my best yet i dont always feel im very attractive. I dont want ot give off negative vibes due to my nervousness. How can i act/become more confident and believe in myself more

Answer 1

Just belive in your self!!!!!

Answer 2

Take into account your interests, if you like playing football search out a local team, interested in First Aid? St. Johns Ambulance. Bit of tomboy, like action packed weekends? Consider the Territorial Army.

All ‘voluntary’ sections will welcome you with no experience, and will give you the experience and training to feel confident in yourself.

My confidence has been boosted by taking up exercise (though I was overweight so it is all part'n'parcel) I've become a runner, a swimmer, and a cycler, takes alot of dedication, but it has changed my outlook to no end.

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Answer 3

I really don't give a crap about what other people think of me. I go out side every day and I'm happy to be me I don't have any reasons to be shy or nervous. when you let other people mold you into something that your not that can only lead to disaster. You have nothing to worry about. just be you don't try to be something your not because sooner or later your friends or co workers will begin to see through you and find out who you really are. Don't show off to every body you don't need to go crazy with makeup or expensive clothes or even new cars. I see through people's personality's very easy and I fine that most people who always wear expensive clothing and try to look too good are almost always just doing it to try and get noticed or so they can "fit in". Just be you.

Answer 4

Have good posture- stand up straight, don't slouch, don't look to the floor when you're walking. Smile at people. Have a hairstyle that suits you. Change something that YOU don't like- that could be weight, clothes, make-up, etc. Go to some kind of confidence-building or assertiveness class.

Good luck

Answer 5

The truth is you need to be accepted as you are. Dress up to impress is needed too but the real you has to be wanted by a few people . I guess you are looking fine but you don't feel fine. I feel fine when I feel excited . The excitement is in my aura and my emotions are controlled by my aura. Ask me more specific questions about the aura and managing it if you wish. That is a huge subject and our most important study in life. My opinion.

Answer 6

Your confidence issue roots much deeper than "looking your best". You won't find your answer there. You gotta change how you see yourself and how that relates to how you see the world. I'm here if you want to talk more about it. Simply changing how you look or something trivial like that is a quick fix. It only lasts as long as it takes to do it. I'm here if you want to talk more about it. Just look at my profile to see how to contact me. I'm online now.

Heath

Answer 7

Go on a shopping spree! buy some cute clothes, get a new haircut and colour. buy some new makeup and you'll feel way more confident :)

Answer 8

learn a new skill and make something that you have never tackled before learn to pride you achievments and then you will be confident

Answer 9

Hypnotherapy and NLP - could be with a life coach or you can self help
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Answer 10

Naked in public. Twice a week for six weeks.

Answer 11

You can't..people are so shallow,they only care about looks