I HAVE A FEW NEIGHBORS.I HAVE BEEN NICE TOO.YET THEY STILL CARRY A GRUDGE,FOR WHO KNOWS WHAT.PLEASE HELP,THIS AFFECTS MY LIFE TRUST AND SELF WORTH.
2007-04-19 18:46:20 · 15 answers · asked by Patricia K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't put pressure on yourself just because someone else has a grudge.....they are immature..
Keep your kindness...they are wasting their energy...
2007-04-19 18:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can they hate you or hold a grudge unless you did something to make them feel this way? Maybe you didn't mean it intentionally but they must have a reason. Talk to them politely and ask them if you did anything to offend them.
2007-04-20 01:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be subtly nice. Its difficult for people to hate someone who is consistantly nice to them, unless they are dedicated to hating you and in that case I dont know if anything will work except brainwashing Oo
2007-04-20 01:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Alexanderthegreat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there's something you have that they want...
my cousin had neighbours who hated her and actually did voodoo.. hahaha i know sounds insane, but they hated ..
some people are just really wierd. keep up your nice attitude, they'll notice sooner or later.
or you know, they could be getting even more annoyed that you're being nice and so they dont wnt to give in to your niceness and so are keeping up their sourness..
ur in the right so dont worry =)
2007-04-20 01:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about them . . . there's only so much you can do. Some people are never pleased, while others are just crazy. All you can do is try to get along with them. Good luck!
2007-04-20 01:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If why they are mad at you for no reason then it must be their personality. I know it's hard to talk to someone about this face to face but you should do it. Ask them straight forward what is wrong.
I'm not sure how it effects your life trust and self worht, please put more details
2007-04-20 01:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to them and ask them why they got something against you. if they explain it, then you'll know why theyre mad and you can try to fix it up, otherwise if they got a grudge against you for nothing, then you should take them for lunatics and send them to hell because they got no reason to be mad at you
2007-04-20 01:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move a way or ignore them as long as you said sorry it,s there problem, find other people to talk to and remember never be friend with your nabourer jest say hi if they do.
2007-04-20 01:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to sound so harsh but screw them. If you tried then thats all you can do. Remember that they are not paying your rent.
2007-04-20 02:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hating you is their problem. Don't waste your time on them, they will only pretend to be nice to you.
2007-04-20 01:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋