Dating your photographer?

Question

So I am a part time model and my current photographer and i have been hitting it off. We both do it as a hobby.passion and have full time jobs as well. He is so sweet an nice, but do you think that may pose a problem? I mean it is like dating someone you work with.. only you only see them once a week not every day????

Answer 1

Bad on alot of levels. But then again modeling is a profession that takes advantage of sex as a selling point. The fact that you encourge this behavior in yourself shows that your just in this world for nice pretty distrations and I can see why you don't see the real problem with this. Your nothing special, dozens of pretty girls walk in and out of this guys life, do you really think some one who encourges others to use their sexuality to gain money is going to be an honest person? Do you honestly think some body whose job it is to see only the sex in his subjects is going to see much more in you? Professions speck volumes about an individual and the development there in. Weather your there to take advantage of this bs concept humanities got on sexuality or your just there cuz your cute and can make money, you both aren't very clever individuals and are simply propertiating a horriable industry for the sake of the almighty dollar. Also how is it passion? I mean it can be seen as art which invovles a love of subject, but that would be true if magizines weren't full of hundereds of pictures of different girls all looking smoking hot. I mean how many photos of leaves can you take before its just a photo of a leaf? Also how is it passion when your simply loving yourself and the way you look? Self-love is nice, but self-worship is just selfish... sorry to rant like this but this is just setting up to be a nice fling, unless there is more you know about this fella then I... its your life do what you well, but its always best in any profession to keep your personal life out of it. He should know that to and the fact he doesn't respect that means he doesn't respect alot of things about what his place in this world is. And it wouldn't be out of the box for that to extent to how he treats himself in a relationship. Besides its going to come down to your own intuition and just worries me when people take advantage of societies problems to make a "honest" living..... doesn't seem honest when we know this stuff is causing a deteration of people understand of what it means to be accept'd in our society. I know, I know its not your fault people are not as cute as you, but its not suppose to be an issue, this industry makes it an issue. Just like porn with clothes on it trys to make sex and sexuality inncent and non damaging, which is never true. Its intense and powerful..... and the people that stay in it and act blind to that shows a complete lack of social moral understanding, which is why I say that chances are that lack of morality is going to extend into your very relationship... be careful in this jungle....