i really like this one guy but my friend likes him to. fo u think its wron 4 me to say yes if he were 2 ask me out?
2007-04-19 16:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by So many questions so little time 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL.....I have bared witness to this dilemma many times in the past with my friends. They always fought over the guy and pulled the same old lame workings such as, if you are my friend then you should stop liking him and let me have him. It was all rather immature and non-affective.
However, I had a very good friend who shared the same view points as me. If we both liked the same guy we never fought over him. We never competed or tried to make the other look a fool in front of the crush either. We felt that there's no point in ruining a friendship for a guy who may not even like either of us and it was also unfair to make the choice for the guy in the first place. So, we let the cards fall where they may. If the guy liked one of us and asked us out then so be it....we moved on to the next crush with no hard feelings.
So, the point is, if he likes your friend then let them be together or if he likes you then you be with him. If the guy is just a simple crush that will lead to no where but casual dating and you don't feel it's worth the drama then you and your friend should both mutually decide that neither one of you will date him.
2007-04-19 16:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lwood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont ask him out. in case you do thats going to coach what an entire push aside you have on your persons thoughts. in case you somewhat somewhat like that guy, then in basic terms flow with the flow. wait and spot if he likes you, and if he asks you out then you definately would desire to declare particular. If he asks out your chum be happy for her. Its his determination, yet a guy isn't nicely worth breaking up a friendship, quite while youre somewhat in jr intense. reliable success! :)
2016-12-10 06:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, it's not wrong at all, but that doesn't mean your friend will like it!
try to be considerate of her feelings -- don't rub it in her face... if she seems really upset about it, tell her that you don't mean her any offense but ask her this: if he'd have asked you out, what would you have said?
ask her to put herself in your shoes, i bet she'd say yes too.
if she tells you that she'd say "no" then she's lying only because she didn't get asked and you did...
and there's no way to cure her *wanting* to feel sorry for herself and take it out on you.
sorry, no easy solution here... but you would definitely not be in the wrong to say yes if he asks you out...
just be cool with it if he asks her out instead....
2007-04-19 16:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be honest with your friend if she doesn't already know ..that you're really interested in the same guy she's interested in.....and if he asks you out..you're going to say yes*
She may get hurt/upset.......but ask her......if he were to ask her out...would she say yes? Don't lose your friendship over this tho..if it turns out she's getting upset..suggest that neither one of you will say yes if he asks one of you out. It's not worth it*~ Move on..Plenty of fish in the sea*
2007-04-19 16:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ask you out by all means SAY YES!
2007-04-19 16:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend about it. maybe she'll understand, if your friendship gets ruin by a boy then I guess it wasn't a real friendship because friends don't do that to each other.
2007-04-19 16:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurry and get that fool before she does :)
2007-04-19 16:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by AJ A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋