My boyfrined and i were together for a while and we just broke up. It was his choice but at first it was just a break and then i told him i couldnt do that. it hurt too much. So we broke it off. After a few weeks we started talking again and then we slept together. It was my first time. It was something that i wanted to do with him and i regreted not doing it while we were together. Now we kinda continue to hook up and act as if we are still together. he said he doesnt want the title of boyfriend and girlfriend. I know its really bad but sometimes i think that it is better to have a part of him than to not ahve him at all! What do i do? Do i stay and try to be just frineds or walk away completely?
2007-04-19 16:05:13 · 4 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He don't want anything serious, but just want to have sex with you. So, what you think he take you for? A sex partner? Having sex with someone you love but don't love you at all is much more hurting than a one night stand.
2007-04-19 16:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind just being used for sex, then why should anyone else.
He doesn't love you and never will. As soon as you stop putting out he will dump you. As soon as he finds someone better he will dump you. He doesn't want to be your friend now or later. When he dumps you that will be the end of it. Not only will he not want to be your friend, his new girlfriend won't want you around either.
If you are fine with that, more power too you.
2007-04-19 16:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are wasting time and energy on this guy, he left it clear that he doesn't want anything serious with you, and it's better to not have him at all, it is just going to hurt you even more.
Sometimes we have to realize that the relationship had it's time and let go, if I were you I'd walk away completely.
2007-04-19 16:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by ?l??????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he break up with u at first cuz u guys were doing it?if thats the only thing he wants for u cuz that what is sounds like, then ditch him.there r more guys out there.
2007-04-19 16:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by leen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋