now you may find this daft and i know i could be being paranoid it was my girlfriends birthday last night and she told me she didnt want me to go out with her and her friends so she went i stayed in she said she would txt me when she got in so i waited and never got a txt from her so then today she txted me and said we needed to have a chat so i called her str8 back and she said she was in the pub watching footy with some poeple and she will ring me back and then told me she loved me . so me being me i assumed this have to talk thing was her going to break up with me then i got a txt saying i love you babe i waited for her to call all night now its 4 am and she still aint called it feels like she doesnt want to tell me and is hiding something so what do you think this we need to talk thing could be about ? if she wants to finish with me fine so be it i dont mind but if she has cheated what should i do for revenge ? also does anyone know if there was any football on tv tonight thx :)
2007-04-19 16:00:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would be feeling the same as you would if i were in your position. i think your gf might be possibly cheating on your or trying to find some new guys. its very odd that she doesnt want you to come along with her for her bday. its her special day and it should have been a day when she should be with people who she loves. and why didnt she just call you, instead of txting you? i find that people who call to be more sincere than texting. she probably didnt want to call you because she didnt want you to hear all the background noises of the men all over her. of all the things you mentioned, i would take all of these signs that she might be cheating on you. but make sure you talk to her and ask her specifically why she didnt want you to be with her on her bday. see if she has a reasonable answer. if you find out she is cheating on you, just simply leave her and revenge does nothing at all. When you just leave her, show that you dont need her anymore so it will make her think maybe she was wrong for cheating on you.
2007-04-19 16:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I think you have every right to be paranoid. I would be too. It's very strange that she wouldn't want her own boyfriend to accompany her on her birthday! Just call her and be straight with her, texting is just a way to distance yourself even further from someone. Of course, if she did cheat you can't possibly make her tell. But you deserve the truth, whatever it may be, and if she can't give it to you, then end things and find someone who won't leave you hanging! Good luck!
2007-04-19 23:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the Maury Show!
I would be prepared for a break up, though I dont think thats what she wants to talk about.
2007-04-19 23:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by tdude09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge will lead u nowhere. if someone doesn't love u, u cannot force them to. Just wait and see what she says buddy don't be so parandoid. Relax.
2007-04-19 23:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be just missing me u and she just feel like she wanted to reassures you that she still loves u because she isnt spending her birthday with you. i wouldnt worry not unless u guys have had problems before hand.
2007-04-19 23:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is cheating on you and doesn't want to be your girlfriend anymore. However you don't seem to be getting the hint. Do you get it now?
2007-04-19 23:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋