I think im very pretty, but i dont have a bf, why not? i mean i had bf's before, but they wernt what i really wanted. Will there ever be a guy out there that will wanna date me? Who wont be an *** or ugly. lol. please help! i dont wanna look @ the other girls with bf's i want my own, i jus dont get it, what does a guy want these days, im pretty lil smart, fun, kool! help me?
2007-04-19 14:01:54 · 19 answers · asked by Reeses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babe I used to feel the same. I'm pretty, smart, fun, popular (like u!). When I was younger (I'm 24 now) I always found it easy to find a boyfriend, but hard to find one that I l really liked. I always felt like they weren't good enough and I'm not happy to settle for second best. I don't think this is arrogent or wrong, I think people just look for partners that 'match' them It can be hard to find a decent guy that is smart, goodlooking, fun etc. But, trust me you will. I've just recently met this guy. He is so gorgeous, looks like a rock star, is so fun, so so so so smart, great job etc. So there, the perfect guy for you is out there. It's great that you don't settle for second best!!!!!!
2007-04-19 14:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing, you need to go after the type of guys you are attracted to. You mentioned you've had boyfriends before, but they weren't, for some reason, what you really wanted. There are no guarantees in life, but if you choose the type of guy YOU want to go out with, that meets your criteria (all the things you are looking for in someone) then you'll find someone. Just ignore the other girls with their boyfriends. They don't concern you. I'm not a guy obviously, but everyone is different. Probably someone cute, fun, smart, and nice to be around. Are you looking for a serious relationship, or just some trophy boyfriend to show off?
2007-04-19 14:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I have to say that just because everyone else has a boyfriend doesn't mean that you have to get one. You should want a boyfriend because you want one, even if no else wanted one. Secondly, you need to just forget about boys for a while, stop acting desperate(you might be unconsciously) and the boys will FLOCK to you. Thirdly, flirt, but don't be over the top. Also, get involved in the world and meet new people. Expand your social circle. Ask your friends and family to introduce you to cute boys =] And perhaps in one of those old boyfriends was actually someone you could like again?
Good luck!!
2007-04-19 14:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but what is the rush. I know it sucks when you are in high school and all your friends have a guy but it isn't worth rushing it and getting a loser. If you are pretty maybe alot of guys are intimidated by you or perhaps you aren't putting yourself in a position to get them. Meaning maybe you aren't sending out the right signs or body language for the guys that interest you.
2007-04-19 14:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know how attractive someone is until you really know them.
Just because you're pretty doesnt mean guys will be all over you. And even if a guy is all over you because of your looks, Thats not the kinda guy you want.
My advice is just wait it out, be yourself. Your own person. Dont push relationships, It will come.
2007-04-19 14:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u skinny guys like grls w/big boobs and and a nice butt and nice legs or not 2 b rude but maybe ur just not that pretty but i think u r from looking @ ur profile so that can't b the problem just try 2 start a conversation w/a guy that u see and is ur age and a guy that looks ur type most guys also like loud outgoing grl if ur shy
2007-04-19 14:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either your not made for dating or your just a materialistic girl.I will explain myself.are u really pretty?or your average and looking for hot guys.what are you really looking for?a hot dude with money?a simple man that not ugly nor hot?or just want to have a bf because you want to be like your friends?sound like that to me. and remember LOVE IS NOT A FRIGGING TOY!! it a felling you have to work hard to get it. so quit been so eager to have a bf if your not determent to work hard for one.
and another thing i noticed you didn't said one of the most important aspects of all. been a sincere lover.
2007-04-19 14:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by virspyadware 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok she asked for a good answer not someone to put her down!
I would try going to the malls and things like that.
There is always a guy for you don't give up on love yet.
I know it makes you feel bad when you see another couple kissing and hugging trust me I know.
But go out more.
2007-04-19 14:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things are hard to find sweetie!! You have to be patient, as hard as it is!! Most men are after sex, so don't be tricked into thinking some thing that it's not!! I am going threw a divorce and I seemed to fall back on some exs! But they do lift my spirit and make me feel better! Nothing serious, just talking, but most of my exs were bad to me!
2007-04-19 14:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP LOOKING SO HARD! You'll never find him if you TRY and look. You might be cool and pretty but looking so much might send out an underlying "desperate" signal. Trust me...guys pick that up quick! So stop looking, do what you like & spend more "me" time, and the one your looking for WILL find you.
2007-04-19 14:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by scarlett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋