My ex-bf & I dated for a short while then HE ended it, and it has been over for one year. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He says hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. Last night he said I was so shocked cuz last night he said hi to me on msn, cuz he hadn't said hi to me in 2 months. He had told me before that after he graduated he wanted to move in with his best guy friend. Last night, he said he won’t move in with his friend, but just stay home. Then I made a joke & said, “didn’t u know a bachelor pad is great, I mean how are u gonna get laid living with ur parents?” then I said “Just kidding, its just a joke”. I waited for his reply , he didn’t say anything so I said “I guess ur mad” then he said “haha, just a tad”, & put a winking smiley face.
2007-04-19 13:30:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did he contact me last night?? Was he flirting with the "just a tad" and ten putting a winking smiley face? Does he think I'm a s l u t now or not a virgin anymore b/c of the comment I made? Does he think I was flirting with him? My friend told me that I sounded seductive, but I was just telling the truth, but how did he view it?
2007-04-19 13:30:57 · update #1
From what I am gathering from what you posted, I think your ex might have been caught a little off guard by your comment. I am unsure if he was mad because 1) he is saving himself as well (you really didn't touch on that concerning him) for marriage for sex and was mad that you made that comment knowing his feelings 2) he was troubled in the fact you said he wouldn't get laid just because he is living with his parents. You gotta remember - he did get you to his room, no sex, but still. 3) He may have had sex with a girl before/ after you in the room and didn't want to bring it up with you. 4) This could also stem from a potential reason he broke up with you (I don't know anything about you or the ex) - you didn't touch on it as I said before, but I am sensing since you didn't talk about his views on premarital sex because he was wanting it, but knew you wanted to wait. For your sake, don't look too much into it; at least stay on talking terms with the guy. Good luck and I have to personally commend you on your waiting until marriage stance!
2007-04-20 08:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by bonsai67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋