PLEEEZ OPEN! i need advice on guys?

Question

Okay, I really like this guy at my highschool
and i no for a fact that he likes me
too.and several people have told me
that hes turned down like 3 girls
waiting for me.but the thing
is he doesnt even act like he likes
me! and its getting me soo mad because
i keep on hearing all this stuff about
how he "really" "really" likes me but when we hang out he like barely talks to me or even attemps to make conversation.
how do i get him to stop being so shy?

Answer 1

Just be brave, and tell him how you feel. Since you guys hang out, it seems like you guys are really good friends! Don't be shy! If you are FOR-SURE that people are saying he likes you, there is no need to be shy! Because if he does likes you, and you like him, then neither of you would be embarrased about expressing your feelings! And if he says no he doesnt like u if you ask, then just say, "Oh, i was just double checking because my friends keep teasing me about it and I am trying to prove to them they are wrong. they are soooo annoying!" or something like that.

Answer 2

Am a guy, i must confess, i have been in this situation you just describe. I was so shy i couldn,t just say anything when i was beside this girl i like so much. My mind was, what do i say? what if i say the wrong thing and she walks away? But the girl helped me. She was so sensitive she knew what i was thinking. She just put her hand in mine and said: i think i like you. Wow, instantly i begin to pour out my mind and she just sat staring at me, it was just wonderful. I felt so free. Guys at times need a little push and i think you should do the same. Goodluck.

Answer 3

you start the conversation. do you start it or are you shy also. go out for a dinner together or a movie and do some stuff together like after school or something. once you start getting more things in common you will talk more and start dating. do you have mutual friends then talk about them say something funny about them and you can spike a conversation up that way

Answer 4

if the only way you "know" he likes you is that people told you he did, i wouldnt trust them. people are not to be trusted. but if you really know, then just go ahead and ask him out! some people, especially shy people, just cant ask for themselves. he probably just doesnt want to screw things up before they start. if you go on a date, and he still doesnt talk to you, ask him why he doesnt. if he doesnt give you a good answer, forget him.

Answer 5

Did you ever think maybe people are telling you that so you look like the fool he might not be shy ,he's not wanting to be boy and girl friend. Your being played ,forget it ,move on.

Answer 6

adult males r strange, on offence 2 yall yet u r! adult males can like greater effective than one female at a time. at the same time as women, lots of the time, have basically eyes 4 one guy. If u the place courting him and he pronounced that u could b mad yet whilst yall r acquaintances then he could nt understand how u sense. Srry im nt an expert on adult males yet desire that helps!!

Answer 7

Nudge the conversation along by asking him how he is doing in his subjects. Then let him take it from there. Good Luck!

Answer 8

well is he usually quiet..? maybe he just likes you so much he doesn't want to say anything stupid to lose you. just talk to him more and if he's not really talking just be like "how come you never really talk to me..?" in a playful way so he'll feel less shy

Answer 9

If Mohammed won't go to the mountain, bring the mountain to Mohammed.

Answer 10

just go up to him and talk just tell you like to hang out for awhile or some thing just breck the ice