Okay. I like this guy a lot, but I've never spoken to him once. I think he would be a really cool guy,but I have no clue on how to approach him. We have NO friends in common and hes one of the popular guys who is always around the pretty popular girls. What am I to do?
2007-04-19 12:19:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you ever consider becoming his secret admirer? Leaving anonymous notes, or clues might endear you to him.
2007-04-19 12:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by way2ticklish4myowngood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not that you like the guy so much....you are physically attracted to him. How could you like some one a lot if you have never spoken to the person, which basically means you have no idea if he is a jerk or not. You have to ask yourself, why do you like him or want to be with him? Is it because he is popular and you feel if he likes you then you have worth and will be popular as well? If you like him for the right reasons, then when you see him in the hall just say hellos at the beginning and then go from there. Just be yourself. And don't think that he is too good for you because he is popular. All the best!
2007-04-19 19:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a experience senior year of high-school with a really popular guy. I knew the guy liked me. He sat next to me in English class and was always looking at me and talking to me. He was really popular and on the football team. I was pretty but shy and hardly dated at all. We went out with a group of friends and ended up kissing in the car at the end of the evening. It was a great time and nothing bad happended but for whatever reason he "apologized" later that week and said it could never happen again. I harbored a resentment but years later realized that less than a month after we kissed he took his best and oldest friend to the prom - she was really shy and not pretty and probably wouldn't have had a date to the prom if he hadn't taken her. You can't make assumptions about the popular kids. They sometimes surprise you. That being said, I hope you will ask yourself whether or not you limit your interests to guys who are popular or if you give other, shyer guys a chance? In a few years you'll be out of school and the cliques of middle and high-school will be all over. A lot of those guys who you never noticed in high-school are going to turn into hotties by the end of their freshman year in college, while the popular guys are going to develop beer guts. You might just change yourself and become a real swan with an incredible sense of style and a lot of intelligence that is sudden very attractive and hip. Be patient, princess.
2007-04-19 19:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by kvcar2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in hs and i still dont beleive in populars because half of your friends dont really like you so just think of it this way, if he has 10 "friends" only 5 are his real friends, and just take the chance and start talking to him and maybe ask him to ur next schooll dance or something you guys dont talk now so what do u have to lose, just dont be shy and know what you are going to say 2 him that way you dont freeze up, but ggod luck, and if he turns u down he cant be that great because he'll never know what hes missing if he doesnt give you a fair chance, and just move on
2007-04-19 19:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a man, I love it when women take the initiative and try to pick up on me! Although it is rare, it really brings a boost to my ego. Therefore, if you initiate the flirting with this guy he will love you for it. But how to start? Easy! Shoot a compliment his way! Here are some that work:
Nice hair, how do you get it that way? What do you use?
Cute shoes/watch/cell phone, where did you get it/them from?
Doesn’t this class suck, when will I ever need to know how to plot a quadratic equation in real life?
Start with a simple compliment and make it all about him and he will love you for it. It’s something we’re not used to, so when women do it, it takes a load off our shoulders!
2007-04-19 19:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by joe l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your approach is wrong, you need to determine if he is right for you, good enough for you. First of all, stop being intimidated because he is popular. There is only one you and if you dont think you are great, why should he?
If you havent talked to him, you really dont know what he is like. You like who you think he is. You could be right & he is great or he could be a total idiot. You cant know until you talk to him.
2007-04-19 19:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never spoken to him then you don't even know him. You are just basing your crush on looks. You can either take a chance and approach him or find someone more approachable.
2007-04-19 19:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by the_gurl_in_ur_liquid_dreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a party he is at and get him drunk and passed out on the bed upstairs and then bang him...then he might wake up in the middle and then bang u cuz he is drunk....then he tells everyone at school and then yur instantly popular and might get asked out by more guys hten just him
2007-04-19 19:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sean Giborty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him and play it off and start talking to him about something that happened on that day and then once y'all build up a good dialog you should then be like i like you and everything and i was wondering if you would like to hang out sometime and if he says yes then that's all good but if he says no then its still all good boys come a dime a dozen and trust me there will be more out there for you
2007-04-19 19:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by slim_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like heartache sounds like too much work sounds like 9maybe) you want to be popular or feel you will be more popular--if you are with him.
Take it from me--if he's got a bunch of girls swarming around him he's probably drop dead gorgeous or slightly full of bunk
2007-04-19 19:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by WILLOW-the-wisp-guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋