theres this guy in my class who keeps staring at me . he even sits behind me in class just to stare at me . initially i ignored him but later wen i couldnt take it anymore , i started giving him angry looks only to find that he continued to stare at me shamelessly .
one day i was alone at the bus stand . the whole area at that time was DESERTED ! . there wasnt even a vehicle in the road . then he arrived at the scene . it was just him & me there .
as he came closer , i became scared but did not show any signs of fear . i made eye contact only once and saw that he was giving me that dirty look again . i gathered the courage to give him one very angry look . to my surprise , i found that his expression changed--- he became a bit scared or was he sad i dunno , he simply walked away with his head down
now he avoids me , even wen i try to start a convo he just keeps quite, he stares at me only wen i talk to other guys
wats up with this guy ??
2007-04-19 10:57:16 · 15 answers · asked by Grateful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have already asked this question and have picked the best answer. If he bothers you so much, tell a teacher since you don't seem to like other peoples answers. You also got another account because I have answered this exact same question under another name. Why do you keep asking this quesion????? And using other accounts to ask it again????
2007-04-19 11:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor guy...This is probably the sadess story I've ever heard. This guy is really shy around you. Very fragile. (ven if he doesn't show it) and you crushed him. You are the type of girls I remember when I was younger. Struggling to talk. Trying to find things to say but couldn't. All you could do was stare. All he kinda needed was some encouragement maybe a friendly smile or something. The one chance he got to talk to you. You basically said, "I hate you and get away from me you creep!" I bet this guy has probably sat around thinking about you. Trying to think of what he could say or do to break the ice and when the opportunity finally came around you broken him in pieces. Be careful what you do to these kinda guys. You're the ones they remember for the rest of their lives. (not in a good way either).
2007-04-19 11:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being there to see the situation, and not knowing either you or him - there is only so much people can say to help you here. If this guy is as "freaky" as you make him sound, you would probably serve yourself well to talk to a teacher or something of that sort about him. How old are you? How old is he? Personally I think that sometimes girls over react to guys being "creepy", but if you are this concerned about it I would act and by getting someone else involved you could quite possibly help this kid with whatever problem he has that is causing him to act this way.
2007-04-19 11:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by n8sAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a crush on you and is a little shy about approaching you. Now he's watching you talk to other guys and probably feels hurt inside.
He wasn't giving you mean looks. That was just the expression he has when he is looking at someone or something intently.
He didn't mean to scare you. He was just thinking a mile a minute about what he might say to you to start a conversation.
If you think you might like him, you'll have to make the first move now. He feels hurt and thinks you probably hate him.
2007-04-19 11:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww babe. This guy clearly likes you but just doesn't or isn't going the right way about it. Don't be scared lol He is prob more scared of you lol. Do you like him too? If not then just make it clear nothing is going to happen. But if its young love he may just be shy.
2007-04-19 11:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Bonnielass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is creepy. Angry looks don't seem to be working. Try talking to him if he remains quiet ask him "Why aren't you talking" Ask him questions or if you really creeped out ask him to stop staring at you because you feel uncomfortable.
2007-04-19 11:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Like a dream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are more interested in that guy than to he is to you.
Angry looks won't scare a guy!.
2007-04-19 11:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by rjshdvds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... sounds like a weirdo... if i were u, id report him to ur school counselor, just to be safe. with all the crazy people doing crazy things in schools lately, u can never be so sure...
2007-04-19 11:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by kandee143 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that he really likes yew...obvs. but anyway.....I think ...yuo kno how u said that he stares at u when u talk to otha guys ...well.I think he is just jelus that u will talk to otha guys but u wont talk to him.... :)
2007-04-19 11:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're are alot of these questions. All I have to say is......get your friends involved! They can do anything!
2007-04-19 11:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Hunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋