2007-04-19 10:43:24 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm. well it depends on who you are. a very sensitive person? the queen of comeback?. it depends. if youre ready, i say go for it. you just need to watch out for who youre going out.
2007-04-19 10:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is like a tiger, if it kills a man once you have to shoot it before it does it again. OK, I am not saying you should kill your boyfriend though a good whipping sounds like what he needs but why should'nt you go out with another guy.
There are arguements for and against ending it with you b/f first. He has cheated on you so you owe him nothing. If you are one of those people who needs to have someone try before you buy and test out other guys first and end it if and when you find a better and more reliable model. If on the other hand you are really sick of your b/f and cant stand the sight of him just give him the red card and show him the door. He deserves nothing more, except perhaps that whipping!
2007-04-19 10:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Skyblue Princess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to be a cheat too? If you want to be with someone else get out of the relationship first. You know how much it hurts to be cheated on, so why would you even think of going that way?
It doesn't matter what other people do, would you want to know that you were no better than him? And its not fair on the other person you go out with either.
Here is your chance to be a better person than him.
2007-04-19 10:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you should break up with him and then go out with the other guy. No matter what you see or hear in the movies, on tv or from your friends, cheating will not make it "even" or make you feel better, it will destroy what little trust is left and, ultimately, the relationship. Better to make a clean break and then go after the other guy, without anything to hold you back.
2007-04-19 10:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ghost 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And how would your cheating change what he did? You're willing to become a lying cheater for revenge? Not kewl at all...have more pride in yourself.
What goes around, comes around. You cheat, you okay yourself to be cheated on.
If you don't dig the boyfriend that much (which apparently you do not) then end the relationship.
If you're trolling, find a new hobby.
2007-04-19 10:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only after you break up with the cheating one, two wrongs don't make a right. Once someone cheats and gets away with it then it becomes easier to cheat next time.
2007-04-19 10:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lori B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if dude cheated on you, you should walk away, but if you wanna hang around for a bit to torture him, by all means, go for it! But you could always be the better person and leave him with the memory that you were the perfect girl and he did you wrong. Living well is the best revenge!
2007-04-19 10:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by pinkgoddess725 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get even and get the satisfaction of revenge. As for the guy that you will use as a tool, he is on the hopes that he can win you over only to become disapointed in the end.
Who does this benefit? I dated a girl like you before, and then I found out that she is intending to use me as a rebound. I just left her dry all the sudden, and trust me, she was really pissed off. Its better off to end whatever relationship problems you have on your own terms.
2007-04-19 11:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who cheats on you? Yes, you should go out with another guy. Move on --- hopefully you meet someone who will have a little respect for your feelings.
2007-04-19 10:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this new guy might MIGHT be real deal that the other cheap bastard you call a boyfriend. But don't stood at his level end that relatioship first, once a cheater always a cheater and if he doesn't apreciate you someone better will
2007-04-19 10:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Lil' Gay Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is noting worse to destroy a relationship more than than having your boyfriend sleep with someone else. Break it of, and move on. You are just dating - break it off and don't see him again. He is not worth your energy - and it's not going to make you feel better by getting him back. That's so immature and not worth the trouble! Break it off!!!
2007-04-19 10:50:06 · answer #11 · answered by Amy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋