Sometime beween dinner and bed time I intiated sex but he was too soft and he said that he was nervous for some reason, which really wasn't a big deal. We agreed to go to bed early because I havent been able to sleep much for weeks and I told him I am trying to get more sleep. Yet, he wakes me up for sex 3 hours after falling asleep, no foreplay, which I was willing to warm up to so we could both get ours, and then after a few minutes has his O and it's over. I'm left lying in bed unable to go back to sleep and sexually frustrated. Ended up not being able to get back to sleep until 3 am when I get up at 6. LAME!
I tried to be warm and collected when telling him it was frustrating to me and he agreed that he shouldn't have done it. In anycase, he's acting a little odd today and I'm not sure if he will tell me what is up. What should I do? Should I ask him to tell me or just let him come to me about his thoughts about what happened? I do get the since he feels bad about it.
2007-04-19 07:55:27 · 13 answers · asked by Holiday 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To Beliz1...I am very versed in pleasuring myself..thank you.
2007-04-19 08:04:11 · update #1
When a man sleeps his testosterone peaks so he was awakened by his urge to merge. He does needs to understand that once he starts he needs to also satisfy you as well.
Tell him you will give him a do over tonight if you start early.
Good luck.
2007-04-19 08:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was your first time together then I'd say you should give him another chance AFTER explaining that he left you frustrated and he shouldn't do that again. Sounds like the vibe was really bad for sex anyway. You tired and him nervous. Try again when you are both in better shape.
However, if you are in a long term relationship, then it might show he is having some sexual difficulties or he doesn't care about you.
If the guy cares about you he will want you to be as satisfied as he is. I always make sure my woman is satisfied before I am. Occasionally accidents happen and he should have reassured you that he will make it up to you.
You do need to talk definitely, but try to be supportive and put a positive spin on it or his sexual problems may become worse. Show him how to please you. Guys don't always know and everybody has different turn-ons anyway.
Good luck.
2007-04-19 08:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by graham spider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he tries that push him back and make him give you foreplay...don't just let him have his way. If he keeps trying to jump right in then push him off make him watch you masturbate, he should want to step in and do the foreplay then if not ...finishing masturbating and go back to sleep, let him be the unsatisfied one one night and it will never happen again.
2007-04-20 11:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get him to talk to you and explain how you feel and how if affects you. Then drag him off to bed lol
2007-04-19 07:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by DarlaTremere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is getting his sexual stimulation somewhere else. And he needed to fantasize about it before he could perform with you.
2007-04-19 08:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must of sucked for you!! make him make it up to you. dont give him an O. Let him get blue balls HA!
2007-04-19 08:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by Classic Beauty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say why dont u show him what it's like and do the same thing to him. that way he knows what it feels like just get played like that.
2007-04-19 08:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by jelly1505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are talking about a man he is never gonna tell you whats wrong if you dont ask
2007-04-19 08:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it. See what both of you can do so both of you can get a "O".
2007-04-19 08:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men dont care
he got his!
another good reason i am divorced from that slob i was married to, and i get MINE now...
2007-04-19 08:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋