is she at fault for making him think thoughts?
2007-04-19 06:00:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
onbestbehavior, I need some time to think about it. I'm busy repenting don't bring up my sins here. Shhh.
2007-04-19 06:04:35 · update #1
NOPE THE MANS
2007-04-19 06:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Juleette 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
It all depends on the situation. Most of the times it isn't the woman's fault. If a guy lust over a woman....that's just because they thing your hot!
2007-04-19 13:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
instead of 'at fault' i prefer to say 'the cause'
somethimes yes sometimes no, depends on the situation
the man could have looked the other way ?was the woman acting very erotic ?
etc.
2007-04-19 13:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by gjmb1960 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In our civilization, women have complete control over all heterosexual matters. It is perfectly natural and completely instinctive for a man to see a woman and to desire her. It also is normal for women to use a wide variety of cultural beauty "accessories" to encourage a man's interest. Modern women have a cultural responsibility to either accept or to reject a man's attentions. Women who flirt (for their own ego gratification) frequently fail to politely reject his unwelcome attentions in a timely manner and thus contribute to his growing obsession. While she is not responsible for his thoughts, she does have a moral obligation to firmly and politely reject all unwelcome suitors as soon as possible. Playing with his head and a wide variety of other stupid girl-games are morally reprehensible and contribute to much suffering for both sexes. It is extremely important for women to understand that it is NOT sexual harassment until AFTER she says no in a completely unambiguous way. It is equally important for him to understand that "no" means no way and to honor her wishes.
2007-04-19 13:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Diogenes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair to put all the responsibility on a man's feelings on the woman. Men have to exercise self control too.
I so hate it when they always make it the girls' problem. It's always the girls who get called sluts if they lose their virginity or get pregnant but the boys who are EQUALLY responsible get pat on the back.
And they make the girls pledge to keep their virginity and not the boys or in Muslim countries make the girls cover up.
2007-04-19 13:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Tyler T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only if he makes a choice 2 listen 2 her.
It takes 2 two play!!
2007-04-19 13:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Berrygirl, are you still going to finish the film or should we find a replacement. I don't know if anyone will look as hot as you in stillettos and a cowgirl hat.
*sob* God I miss you so much already.
2007-04-19 13:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by April 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The sin in lust is with the one that is Lusting, so he is at fault.
If she is deliberately teasing and causing this on purpose, she could also be sinning.
It is what it is.
Peace!
2007-04-19 13:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ulitmately,the man is responsible for his own thoughts.
However,if a woman dresses intentionally to intice,then she is also responsible for her own actions.
2007-04-19 13:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by bonsai bobby 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No not unless she is trying to seduce him. Men need to control their lust women can't do it for them.
2007-04-19 13:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mim 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope. Everyone is responsible for their own actions or thoughts.
2007-04-19 13:03:45 · answer #11 · answered by Spring loaded horsie 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋