o.k um i started going out with this girl but her best friend used to like me but i told her i didnt like her
so now she is like turning me and my new girls life into hell i hate and try to act nice but she makes me flip out on her then my girl hets mad
she even tried to get my girl to break up wit me
she said no of course but now my girl thinks im going to break up wit her what do i do bout this?
2007-04-19 04:15:38 · 8 answers · asked by ace f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sir1 It's pretty obvious that this girl is trying to split you and your girlfriend up, and if you constantly fight and bicker with you just give her what she wants. Don't feed into her foolishness. Focus on your relationship with your girl, and ease her fears of you breaking up with her.
2007-04-19 04:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit your girl down and tell her how you feel. Her best friend is very jealous that the two of you are going out. I had this problem with my best friend and she tried to break me and my man up (after 4 years of dating- I knew him longer than her!) and i really got to see a different side to her!! Tell your girl how you feel about her best friend and that she must be very careful of her. Your girl may flip out, but just tell her you want to be honest with her, and you don't want to say something to her or her best friend one day that'll hurt her and ruin everything. This girl is so jealous... believe me, once she gets a boyfriend of her own, it'll all work out. You don't have to like her, just be pleasant when your girlfriend is around the two of you. It's difficult i know, but just try. For your girl's sake!
BEST OF LUCK!
2007-04-19 04:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to sit down and have a heart to heart with your girlfriend, tell her everything, and if this relationship is worth saving, then work on the friend too. Sit down with her friend and your girlfriend (in a crowded place so voices can't be raised!) and figure out what you can do to correct this situation. It all comes down to jealousy, she is either jealous you have her friend and are taking her away, or that your friend has you. You have to get to the root of the problem in order to kill the weed. Good luck to ya!
2007-04-19 04:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by TootsieGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's jealous her friend has a man and she doesn't. Especially since she had a thing for you before.
There's nothing you can do but make it a point to be nice to her. It'll be hard. Unbearable even. But if you fight with her it'll affect your relationship. Talk to your girl and tell her how much you like her and don't want to lose her, and that you'll do your best to get along with her friend. If she sees YOU trying hard to get along and her friend NOT trying, she may ditch the friend instead of you.
2007-04-19 04:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if your girl cant put her friend in check then move on. ur not here to date them both! you shoudlnt have to deal with this baby drama. tell her to get over it and put her friend in her place. otherwise ur moving on to a more mature relationship.
2007-04-19 04:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 choices, put up with it or leave.
2007-04-19 04:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is my situation exactly, email me and GIVE ME some pointers !
2007-04-19 04:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her life living hell she is being rude 4 no reason... so so her rude back!
2007-04-19 04:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by tabbycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋