I am an 22 yars old french girl.
I feel attract by my boss which is married.
I kown his wife and his son and daughter .
I start flirting him without noticing it and I think he is flirting back to me.
sometimes we start joking and as my english is not perfect i say somethin with a double meaning (u know what I mean?) and he answer "if only i wasn't married..."
what do you think about it?
2007-04-19 02:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by crinicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing happened yet and I don't want to destroi a family but I dream about him and ....
2007-04-19 02:32:20 · update #1
i think that if he would start putting his hand on me knee while in the car alone I wouldn't be able to stop him.
HELP!!!
2007-04-19 02:49:18 · update #2
I think you should lay off him and keep it professional. Just think about if your husband had some girl at work flirting with him.
You would be upset. because I know i would.
He has a family, don't take it another step or you could be at risk to ruining a family.
It sounds liek an affair is about to happen sooner or later... don't get involved, plus we all know married men never leave their wives.Girl, go find a nice handsome Single Man!!
Good Luck... hope u make the right decision
2007-04-19 02:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by bimboicy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is no problem to be attracted to someone, the problem comes in trying to break up a marriage and destroy the lives of children. You need to see the big picture here and realize that yes, guys who are successful and fun and funny and have power and jobs and money are very attractive ... but they aren't all available.
And then there is that age old golden rule ... do unto others like you would want them to do to you ... how would you feel if some young gal was making a major play for your husband?
2007-04-19 09:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you know him and his family and you are a very terrible person if you start any kind of flirting or relationship or even sex, including kissing with this person.
He is also your boss...most companies have regulations about that...you could get fired.
The main thing is that you know his whole family and are still trying to flirt with him...that is way wrong!!! There is a word for people like you, but I don't think we are allowed to use it on this site.
Why would you want to break up his family?
jeese
2007-04-19 09:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be very careful, your job is on the line here and there will betalk if you take it any further no matter how much you try to hide, i think you should forget about it and just work, he also has a family do you really want to be the reason of a family break up
2007-04-19 09:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by smitters06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is definately flirting if he said that but hopefully he will respect his marriage and remember he is married! be respectful of this commitment he has made to his wife and the children they have there are many single guys out there without the danger of an affair
2007-04-19 09:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by charli_red1218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is letting you know that he realizes he is married and plans to stay that way. Weigh your comments to him before speaking them. He may get the feeling you are "offering" yourself to him. This could lead to either an affair or your getting fired.
2007-04-19 09:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its always a bad idea to mix work and pleasure, though it might be fun. try doing some role play with someone else wether in person or online. hey i know hit me up. menostyle@yahoo.
2007-04-19 16:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep away from him! Find some other unattached guy to flirt with!
2007-04-19 09:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by HiLight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from married men especially a boss......just keep it at a work related level....
2007-04-19 09:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to be sure that you don't like him,tell him what words you are aiming for.If you like him,but don't want to make anymore mistakes,then ask to switch hours.BUT SAY THAT YOU DON'T KNOW YOU RE FEELINGS FOR HIM!!!
2007-04-19 09:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by tikitikithunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋