Here goes,,One of my classmate this year told and confessed me last Monday that he has a huge crush on me since the beginning of the class.He tole me that he find me kind,intelligent,good-loooking,cheerful gal.But I told him that I've already like and love someone else,maybe he can find another gal better.Right after that,he just said it's alright,then he's like avoiding me and never wants to talk with me until today.Just wanna ask ...who's fault is that and who should understand things better??
2007-04-18 23:19:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give him a little bit of time to adjust himself. Everyone who has suddenly lost the love of his life or his dreams is bound to feel a bit lost at first. He would know the good side of you in telling him the truth and not leading him on. Be happy!
2007-04-18 23:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh young love - isnt it confusing!
Its no ones fault - you were both open and honest about how you felt! end of story!
You know how he feels and vice versa.
Him not saying much and not talking for a while was because he was embarrassed thats all. Wasnt meant to hurt you at all.
Trust me, he feels worse than you do.
Neither of you should necessarily understand things better than the other, frm what I hear, the situation has resolved itself.
If he is taking to you again he has accepted it. Thats really good.
Be his friend.
Nothing else will probably ever get said about it!
2007-04-19 06:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one his feelings are hurt he will eventually come round and it took a lot of courage for him to tell you all that so undertsand why he is avoiding you because his pride is hurt and he is embarrased, both of you should uinderstand each others situation and it doesn't sound like you dating this other guy you seem to like cos you didn't meantion it so maybe you could have given him a chance
2007-04-19 06:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by smitters06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is very painful. That boy had the guts to tell you how he felt, he allowed himself to be vulnerable, but you weren't interested.
I applaud you for being honest and not leading him on, that was the right thing to do.
If the boy has talked to you today, maybe he's licked his wounds and is ready to be your friend again.
2007-04-19 06:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Choqs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nobody's fault. He had romantic feelings for you, he told you about them, he found out that the feeling was not mutual. Nobody has done anything they need to apologise for. He was honest about his feelings, and you were honest about yours. Move on.
2007-04-19 06:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
> it's not your fault..it's not his fault.. just give him some time to recover.. of course.. when he found out that you dont feel the same way.. it would hurt.. but after sometime.. it would just go away..
2007-04-19 06:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by jammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about it? He is just feeling rejected right now. Leave him alone, and he will get over it.
2007-04-19 06:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill yourself
2007-04-19 06:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋