Help me with being a b*tch?

Question

I know payback is no way to do things, I know this better than anyone

BUT in this case I cant help myself.

My brothers gf is a *****. She used and manipulated him, took his money, and then waited until he moved house with her, bought everything for the house and then dumped him the day she moved in (as she didnt need him anymore, she had everything she wanted)

Today my brother got a letter in the mail, she had printed off a document on pschitzophrenia and underlined a couple of things which she thought related to my brother.

I want to get her back... for my brother and for the family, she always said she hated us, even though she lived in OUR house for nearly two years. She told my brother she hated us and made him chose... my mother always said, "oh no, she doesnt really" and then made up excuses for her.
She is ignorant, self obsessed, selfish, self centred, manipulative, money hungry, cares for no one, fraudulant, horrible, rude, heartless.

How can I get her back?

I thought perhaps if I could find a disease which had some symptoms which I listed, I could give her back what she gave my brother.

Ive always gone out of my way to be nice to her, she has always done nothing but stab me in the back.

Any ideas on something sarcastic I could write or an illness I could say she had to put her in her place?

Ive never done anything like this in my life, and still may chicken out and decide not to do it anyways. But she has made our lives hell, I want her to know we dont like her no matter what she does.

I know it will solve nothing, so please dont tell me to be the bigger person! - I know all that! This is different!

Suggestions?

Bill - that is word for word what I would have certainly said if it were me replying to anyone else - trust me you dont get it!

ii2la!! --- That was the funniest thing Ive read all day, I didnt expect that last bit!

Answer 1

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Answer 2

You are in exactly the same position as I was about 4 years ago, except my brother got married to this skank even tho he felt she may be a cheat. In the end she left him for some other f**kwit and took him 4 every thing he was worth. She and the new guy harassed my brother for months (even me at one stage at my place of work) even though it was she who was in the wrong. I didn't do anything even though I wanted to so badly and all these years later I still think about that mole and how much I hate her. I feel she has scarred my brother in a very permanent way. You should do something, it may not make a difference but what the hey. If I was an evil person I may have an idea of what you could do, but i have none. Take the best one and run with it. Just don't get yourself in any trouble, definately not worth that.... I kinda like the planting drugs idea! Matter of fact she called the police when my brother and I were living together telling them we had drugs in the house and they raided us in the middle of the night and it SUCKED. Yeah, do that! You don't even have to risk planting drugs and getting in trouble, you could just make an anonymous call to the police.

Answer 3

Well, something that borders on evil would be to open a new email account thru Yahoo or whatever and use that email address enough until you get one of those Nigerian Bank emails. Using the new email address, answer them. Tell them that you are a 72 year old widow and that you are willing to help them. At some point they will want to have some contact information, give them the address and phone of your "friend". The scammers share their information. A 72 year old widow will get lots of the scammers coming. Like sharks coming to blood in the water. She will be bombarded by others trying to contact her with all sorts of scams. Once you have done this, then stop using that email address. Of course, the downside to this one is that you will never know exactly how bad it is affecting her, but you can dream.

Answer 4

oh my God that girl is too clever for all of you and there's no way you're going to be paying back without arousing her suspicion.

All I can say is if there's been some financial loss for you, can file a legal case of fraud but I doubt if you could keep up with such a manipulative mind.

Do you have her photos? If I was in your place, I would have 5000 copies printed and distributed in the whole neighbourhood exposing that bi-tch or better still, run a full-page advertisement in a newspaper. At some conceivable cost definitely, but it would ease my frustration a bit.

Answer 5

I think that the biggest thing you should be glad of is that your brother hopefully has learned his lesson is the picking a girlfriend department sad i know but if it doesn't kill him will make him stronger, also surely if he moved house for her with his stuff bought with his money he should take her to court and let the judge get him money or stuff back, just let me say also that be careful you are in dangerous territory and your brother may stil get back with her and you will end up the worst in the world, this is your brothers problem and he let her do this do him maybe you should let him deal with it.

Answer 6

Stop dont waste any more time on this its not worth all the time and energy spent on it. Avoid this person ignore them if they continue to be a problem report them to the police.
Get busy with your life and find something positive to do with your life.Here's a novel idea get a bible and read the book of John,
Save yourself some pain look up for life's answers....

Answer 7

if your husband is your b*tch then perchance you made a unfavorable decision whilst identifying on a husband. My husband is no person's b*tch. and that i'm undecided the way you artwork it relatively is a guy's international.

Answer 8

Don't respond.

Hurtful actions are designed to make someone cry out in pain, literally or figuratively. She wants a response.

If you respond, you're playing her game and validating her actions. Just move on.

It will make her more insane than any hurtful thing you could say or do.

Answer 9

Hello,
I understand you dilemma, but I would have to agree with others that you are fueling the fire.

Just remember..."you can't change anyone that isn't in diapers."

My advice is to ignore her. That will be the best revenge!! If you don't acknowledge her then it will eat at her, then she will act out....you just have to ignore her, honey.

It sounds like you love your brother, but he is a big boy. Try to let him figure things out on his own so you don't have to spend the time worring.

Answer 10

As much as it sux you need to be the bigger person and leave it alone! Your bro obviously fell for it all, and now that is something he has to deal with.....He has lost alot of things but will now be prepared for the future! She will realise what she has lost if he did all these good things for her!!!! She will come sucking back up and your bro NEEDS to tell her to go away!!!!