I had a big fight with my husband and all of my family wants me to get divorsed and i know that he hurts me when he is angry but i trully love him, we been together since 3 years and we are now married since one month and we still did not move to live together, shall i get divorsed knowing that it is been a week he did not contact me in could someone plzzzz help
2007-04-18 22:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my advice is to talk to him. ask him what he wants and you tell him what you want. try to meet him in the middle. you say that he hurts you. does he physically hurt you? if not then talk to him. unless yopu have done everything in you power to stay in the marriage, and i mean EVERYTHING, then dont give up.try counselling. one month is just the beginning.
2007-04-18 22:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes afraid of something here. If you have not consumated your marriage yet, you can get your marriage nullified (like it never occured) instead of a divorce due to the short time frame. It sounds like he really didnt want to be married after all, because newly weds dont live apart and hes guilty of dereliction of his husband duties. Sorry about your marriage, but you deserve better than him. Move on. Good luck
2007-04-18 22:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see many graves of women who say such things as he only hurts me when he is angry or drunk or high or some other nonsense if this is true get out or you will be like those women who say well he started beating me and cheating on me but I loved him and stayed with him when I went to the hospital it was only because I was vacuming when he had a hangover when he broke my arm I deserved it for making the chicken to spicy he gave me a black eye because I scratched the car he killed me because I was thought brad pitt was sexier than him.
if you don't leave this guy I refuse to put flowers on your grave I reserve them for those who were taken from us for no reason you want to stick with him you want to be hurt and one day he will kill you. you give him the power to end your life as he wants. maybe we should call you mrs. peterson
2007-04-18 22:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your having these problems already in the marriage...end it. Obviously neither of you are happy and should move on with your lives in opposite directions before children are brought into this mess.
2007-04-18 22:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the heck are you doing ? You cant live with this person. How can you plan on staying married.
2007-04-18 22:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont know what he wants how in the world do you think you have a relationship... why in the world did you marry in the first place because it sounds like you two dont know each other at al really
2007-04-18 22:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by maddogcrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look before you jump, divorce is an answer but not the only answer. Try to fix your issues first and consider divorce a last option.
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2007-04-18 22:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think things will get better? You must have a big head and a headache how stupid are you RUN LIKE THE WIND
2007-04-18 22:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by harley6455 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LEAVE! Someone who is normal does not nurt you just because.
Your family knows. Just becase you love him does not mean he is the best person for you....
2007-04-18 22:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not disown from LOVE!
2007-04-18 22:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Guly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋