It seems like they all have a good time together and they invite me and they ridicule me sometimes. They laugh at me to my face yet they still keep wanting to hang out. Am i a big joke to them? Just entertainment? Or do they even like me at all?
2007-04-18 22:34:37 · 11 answers · asked by glart98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is a toughie, as i have been on both sides of this. We had a buddy whom we made fun of alot, but we still enjoyed hanging out with him. He had led a very sheltered life and was quite naiive. I think our ridicule was our not so subtle way of forcing him to man up a little. On the other hand you should not waste your time with people who make you feel bad. Join a different group and observe before you speak, not every story needs to be answered with one of your own, and trivia knowledge is never actually impressive to most people.
2007-04-18 22:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by guidot2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your just entertainment for them. If they consistently make fun of you and no one else in the group then you are probably just there for their personal jester. If they make fun of everyone in the group equally then its probably just the way that they hang out together.
If you are the only person that is being made fun of then find new friends. Everyone deserves to have friends that really care and dont make you the consistent entertainment.
2007-04-19 07:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it sarcastic? Friends usually tease each other from time to time. And some people in a group of friends usually cop it alot more than others........if they still want to hang out with you then most likely it's all in fun. If it really bothers you, say something.......real friend's will reassure you.
When it crosses the line from being sarcastic and fun teasing to personal and making you feel uncomfortable then you need to question what you are to them.
2007-04-19 05:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats horrible, and not good for you. You must feel terible. But I dont think that you are a joke to them, It just sounds like they are taking you for granted. Not that It makes you feel any better. I cant really give you much advice as my friends treat me the same way.
2007-04-19 05:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by Do_you_know_what 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to confront them when they do this. Let them know its offending you and ask why they are doing that. It could be for kicks and giggles but if its upsetting you thats not cool on their part. If they keep doing this... ditch them and find some nicer friends.
2007-04-19 05:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by ☆Ele☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what friends do man its life maybe throw a few jokes about them in there direction and see what happens they might laugh as well if they get pissed then find some new friends
2007-04-19 05:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by big 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Heart REAL friends will not ridicule you. They accept you as you are.
Dump them!
2007-04-19 05:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure they do... You just have to start making fun back... Someone skinny call them "String Bean"
Someone a little plump? Call them hefty...
Do they have nick names? You wouldn't believe the stuff we called each other.... lol
Don't say it "mean" but with fun...
Get jiggy with it!!! LMAO... Have fun..
2007-04-19 05:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i'm sure they really care, but if you don't feel comfortable with them try stop hanging with them
2007-04-19 05:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by yurrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the saying, with friends like that, who needs enemies?
2007-04-19 05:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by ·will¹ªm ºn vacation! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋