hey my question is about my man how long ruffely can my man get off work and when should it start because am 23weeks pregnant and he wants 2 be there for the birth when it happens but hes always 2 busy in work n he wont get any days off not even for my appointments also another problem is his work is miles away from where i stay its about nearly 2hrs bus ride so any ideas on when he should get off work 2 be with me for the birth and how long for?
2007-04-18 22:28:48 · 3 answers · asked by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell him to watch simpsons and study Bart simpsons.
2007-04-18 22:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by slperera 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi I'm 37 weeks pregnant and my husband has saved up his sick time and vacation time to take off a little extra with me. He also has a very busy schedule and works quite a ways from me so it makes it difficult and I'm so nervous about him being able to be there when 'it' happens. I would say that when you get a little further along like 36 weeks or so and your doctor starts checking you to see if you're dialating and getting ready to maybe see about scheduling it then, you may even want to discuss a scheduled induction if nothing is happening around 39 weeks to make sure he can be there with you and have him tell his work when it's closer to time that it could be anytime so be expecting a call or no show from him one day. Good luck and hope I helped a little.
2007-04-19 05:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by SHOP GIRL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, PLEASE use commas, full stops etc. It makes it much easier to read your question. Secondly, where do u live? The law is different for different countries
2007-04-19 05:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by iris 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋