I've fallen for my friend and don't know what to do can anyone please give me some advise and I don't know if he likes me in the same way I don't want to ruin our friendship as it means alot
2007-04-18 22:14:49 · 15 answers · asked by kerryann m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just don't rush things.Time will tell.
2007-04-18 22:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, if a boy likes a you, he would continuously talk to him - especially if you sits beside him. He would also become very helpful to you, like lending you a pen when you need one, taking down notes for you in class if you were not there. Thirdly, he would most likely acknowledge you if he passes by you. Most of all, glance at him surreptitiously (without seeming like you are doing so) and see if he is often staring at you.
Rumours help too. If there are rampant rumours about him liking you, chances are that it is true. Listen to your friends, but don't trust them too much, as they may either be joking or biased towards you.
Be careful, some 'hints' may be your own imagination, but don't put down everything. He may genuinely like you, and it would be a pity to let that go to waste.
As for how to confess, if you think he likes you, the best question I can think of is "Do you like anyone?" It both drops a hint that any sensitive person can pick up, that you like him, but doesn't really embarrase you. Besides, you already think that he likes you, so it's quite reasonable that he would be thinking if you like him too.
The second idea I have is to type out an anonymous note saying "I like you.", leave it on his table when you are sure no one is looking, and make sure you are there when he opens it. The trick is not to seem too interested, or it's a dead giveaway.
Of course, if you two are really good friends, just ask him whether he likes you. I asked my own best friend, "Do you like me?" once. He told me no.
Good luck!
2007-04-18 22:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have a girlfriend, just ask him out. Tell him that you have been having some feelings for him that are stronger than friendship. Ask him if he has ever thought about it. Tell him that you don't want to make him uncomfortable with your friendship, but that you needed to know how he feels. If he looks uncomfortable or answers "no", say "Well, good I am glad that I got this off my mind" and act like the friend that you are.
2007-04-18 22:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you done something wrong with him, go ask him to forgive you. In a friendship you must share the same things, feelings! You should say to your friend that this friendship means a lot for you!
2007-04-18 22:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ibitza Stretch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, look for a convenient time to tell him how you feel. he may like you as well. and the best part is you know is other very well. my husband and i were friends for 5 years before he asked me to marry him and believe me i am happy to have said yes to him. i mean he is not perfect, he is not the kind of person i was dreaming to marry but he loves me and understands me.he takes care of me.
tell him no matter what his decision may be you will always consider him as a good friend and nothing will change even if he says no.
good luck. hopes everything works out.
2007-04-18 22:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by havillah k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to like you,you have to become his very best friend not girlfriend just a friend at first.The quickest way to become a girlfriend is to be someone he can talk to about anything. Be there for him if he is sad,happy,unsure of himself.
What ever you do don't let on that you want to be anything other then a good friend.If you do it right he will start to get feelings for you.
2007-04-18 22:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember; if you go into a relationship with this guy, you can loose your friendship forever.
So decide now, before telling him anything if it is worth losing a friend to have a boyfriend!!
2007-04-18 22:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by CillieM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just observe his behvior and do some flirt, and the most important have some close relation with your other friend and see if he is jealous and if he become then that is love toward you as well and then go for it and tell him that you did this proposely to see if he got feeling for you .
2007-04-18 22:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friendship will get y no where in the long run, Just go for it
2007-04-18 22:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by harley6455 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r caught in between of "love" and "friendship" eh??..well...its hard to be in ur spot...but u know, u r a girl...and a girl must not burst out his feelings for a guy...if he also likes u as much as u like him, then he will do the first move...just wait...as of now, focus on something else...ok?...gud luck girl...
2007-04-18 22:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by _sapphire princess_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just confirm if there is anyone else in his life or not
Then find out whether he too loves u or not
if the 1st is false and second is yes, go ahead and tell him/her
if vice-versa , just forget him/her
if both are correct, again do tell him/her
if both are false, also u should tell him/her
so in 3 cases u should tell him/her and 1 case u shouldn't
so why waitin' go ahead and get ur mate b4 anyone else does so
2007-04-22 18:59:01 · answer #11 · answered by zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋