invite my mother to my wedding?
2007-04-18 19:54:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ok briefly
have not seen her in two yrs
she hates my dad and I love him
she has had problems in past with drugs
she stole from my fiance and my grans
she tells me i am spoiled
and i am afaird she will ruin my day
nuff said
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2007-04-18 20:04:40 · update #1
Technically, no you don't HAVE to, but I'm sure it'd be nice to invite her. If you two have huge differences and don't get along at all, then I could understand. if you fear that she might stand up and say "I don't think they should get married" you could always take that out of the wedding.
just think about it before you make any decisions. good luck
WITH THE NEW information you posted, no i wouldn't. i really wouldn't. you have that right and from what you've mentioned to us, she doesn't deserve to be apart of this glorious day. best wishes
2007-04-18 20:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kiri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't really have to. Many people prefer not having any family members or friends at their wedding now a days. I mean, it would be a nice gesture, simply because it's going to be an important date in your life, and all, but if you're going to feel uncomfortable, then try to just slide it by her. Honestly, unless she did something mean, or you have a bad history with her, it would be a good thing to invite her.
good luck :)
2007-04-19 02:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She had a problem and is now in recovery ? And you want to invite your dad and brother and they might feel uncomfortable. I think she will not come if everyone still has such bad feelings.
Pray for the right answer.
2007-04-19 12:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mudd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dont invite her during the wedding but u can invite her after the wedding..........
Have a happy married life......
God Bless You......Take care......Bye.
2007-04-19 03:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by SE7EN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to watch by closed circuit television.
2007-04-19 03:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but it would be nice if you did. Only if you have a normal relationship. You shouldn't do it unless you really want her there and it means something to both of you.
2007-04-19 02:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by Alexandriagal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if you dont want to, but you might regret it later in life.
2007-04-19 02:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by unfixingblowfish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you have to but if you don't you might regret it down the road and it will probably hurt her feelings but it is your day and you have to do what will make you happy .
2007-04-19 03:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by sandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, unless you have a valid excuse not to invite her
2007-04-19 02:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, but she probably should be there if it's anything more elaborate than eloping.
2007-04-19 02:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by Son of a Mitch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋