I was molested when I was six, but I feel totally alone and I keep on crying because I remember EVERY detail. I can't help but feel disgusted. How do I handle this because I can't stand crying anymore? My pills don't work so pills are out of the question. Am I alone on this?
2007-04-18 17:14:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Forgotten Poet, I am sorry to hear of what you are going through. You are not alone, in fact you would be surprised at how many people have been molested as children. First of all, don't listen to people who tell you to just get over it and move on with you life. They do not know what they are talking about. What happen to you will continue to eat you up inside until you start working on resolving the issue. You need to see a therapist ( a good one that you feel comfortable with) who will help you with the work you need to do to get through this horrible issue in your life. The work is very hard and it takes awhile, but in the end you come out a whole person. Just know you are not alone. God bless you.
2007-04-18 17:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by jehrapha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get some help. No shame in getting some counseling, and they can help you a lot more than pills. You can't sum up your life based upon something that happened for such a brief time. I was not a victim of sexual abuse, but was physically abused so am speaking from experience. You'll feel better when you talk to a professional about it. Trust me, you'll feel better and will begin to heal. Peace
2007-04-18 17:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by babalu2 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's O.K if you never get over this. I have a friend who was molested by her own uncle as well. I'll pray that this never happens to anyone because I understand that this is something that should NEVER happen again. You're never alone, someone will always be there for you. I hope you'll be able to move onto the future!
2007-04-18 17:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're not the only one.
I use to be depressed. I never talked to anyone about it.I remember i use to cry for no reason almost every week. Yes, I also attempted to have suicide.
But then life became better. I hanged out with people who were fun and nice. I got and went to places i dreamt of going to.
Basically, just live life to the fullest. Avoid drama. Get stuff your dying to see. Travel. Trust me, you'll feel better.
2007-04-18 17:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately i've never been in this situation but i'll try my best to cure you. You need to realize that this is your past, and you can't spend your life worrying about your past, its behind you, unfortunately theere's nothing you can do about it. Focus on the good things in life, there are plenty of them no matter who you are. In terms of medical or professional help i would definitely reccomend seeing a psychologist, not for pills but to help your emotions settle. I go for various issues and i feel great and refreshed getting these things off my back. I'm sure they'll know how to cure ur mental state better than i can. Best of luck, its a shame that bad things happen to good people like you.
2007-04-18 17:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you!
PLEASE, for your sake, find a professional counselor to talk to. Your problem is NOT insurmountable. With love and support, you CAN conquer those feelings.
Please know that you are a valued person, not just here but in the world you live in every day. You are worthy of a loving and happy life. And that is my sincere wish for you.
2007-04-18 17:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by BlueFeather 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but I do not know what you are going through. My advice would be to look online and try to find a support group near to you so you can talk to others that have experienced the same thing. My deepest apologies and condolences go out to you, I hope you will receive the support you so desperately need
2007-04-18 17:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cpt. Amazing 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please,realize that it was not your fault that this happened to you.
The person who molested you is a very sick person.
The best thing you can do for yourself is therapy. Being able to talk to someone the you can confide in that does not judge you in any way is the best healing that you can give yourself at this time.
I pray you find peace in your life for this and one day will be able to say your are a "survivor" and not a "victim".
Don't let this person victimize you any longer!
2007-04-18 17:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are getting some intense counseling because you can't handle something like this alone. If you are getting therapy and it isn't working, find someone else. Sometimes you have to go through a few of them before you find one you really click with.
Good luck.
2007-04-18 17:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by idahoturkey 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm deeply sorry. but what is in the past, let it buried in the past. there is nothing you can do about it now. just know that it was not your fault. so you shouldnt be miserable about it or punish yourself for it. you are still you. be happy and lets you have the last laugh.
i remember a friend once said to me, ' you cant choose how you feel, but you can choose how/what you do about it'. move forward positively, you are no less a better person because of your past experiences....
2007-04-18 17:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋