2007-04-18 16:31:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It was for SEVERAL years. I have always been told that I am the care giver of the family.
But as I have gotten older and stronger, I have now learned to say NO when the situation warrants it.
Like with my grown kids, they use to be able to get whatever they wanted out of me, but now it isn't as easy to do.
And boy they hate it................LOL
Now with my parents and my grandchildren, that is a different story. They can still wrap me around their finger and get me to give or do anything for them.
2007-04-19 05:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is hard to say NO because I usually want to help.
2007-04-18 16:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was my problem too.. I have this past relationship that even though he is hurting me emotionally i can't say NO to him..
But now I've learned my lesson I'm trying now to say no if I have to.. Don't wanna be pushed and get hurt again..
2007-04-18 16:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by childmoon08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this where I start pulling my hair out? LOL Yes it is and I hate that I can't say no when i should.
2007-04-18 16:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the older i get the easier it is to say
N O
spent topo many years saying yes doing what i did not really wanna do
so now?
NO NO NO!!
2007-04-18 16:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by BlackSwan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, and I want to help, but I have problems of my own. There has to be a way.
2007-04-18 17:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only when it comes to relationships. i feel so bad when i say no. i don't no why. I've only said yes to one person because i just couldn't say no. i hate seeing people upset especially when its my fault.
2007-04-18 16:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when it comes to my kids. I have to be really careful there. Anyone else, it really isn't that hard.
2007-04-18 16:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I tend to just agree with people sometimes so an argument doesn't start
2007-04-18 16:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by rayda1009 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the difference between empowerment and enabling, and I find it very easy to say "no" to enabling.
2007-04-18 16:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋