he just said he love me very much only one week ago, now he start a relationship with another woman,how can he change he feeling so fast?
2007-04-18 15:42:41 · 15 answers · asked by sska 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is a philanderer.Always needing a steady change of sexual partners.They do this so they can keep from committing to one certain partner. They don't look at women as equals. They believe that women are here to service them through sex.He refuses to see things any other way for fear of a woman controlling them.These guys are mean and hostile to women. They like women about as much as the fox likes the chicken.Philanders are self centered and and really only love them selves.they depersonalize women and want power over others. They are liars and they cannot be in one special relationship. You cannot count on them to ever be honestand they always feel entittled to all the women they can get for sex!If your husband or boyfriend constantly cheats your relationship will always be at war with them. You are better to leave them and never look back. You cannot change them. They always want their cake and eat it to.
2007-04-18 16:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he never loved you in the very beginning. He only said what you wanted to hear. That's what you call a manipulative man. So now you know what he is all about, just move on with life.
2007-04-18 22:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never loved you in the first place. Sounds like he was just trying to get something out of you by saying he loves you. Was he by chance making out with you and trying to get into your pants when he said this? Believe me a man will say anything to get into your pants! Especially The I Love you line. Whether you let them or not they will still leave you if they don't love you. So I think it's better to hold out and actually let them really show you they love you before to put out girl. I had lots of guys tell me they love me and they were guys who I barely met! They didn't get anything and off they went to find someone else who would put out. I would think good riddance if that's all they wanted, I certainly didn't want anything to do with them.
2007-04-18 22:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His feelings didn't change. Most times when men cheat it has nothing to do with feelings. It's all about their ego and their libido. He obviously isn't man enough to be monogamous. It sounds like he's trying to be some kind of player though so you may wanna consider shuttin him down and dropping his sorry behind because obviously he has no problem with hurting you. Good Luck
2007-04-18 23:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is talking through his penis. Telling you he loved you was the best way to get you to drop your drawers, now that he's done with you, he's off to deeply love someone else. Some men are just dogs. Forgive yourself for falling for that old trick and move on. Good luck.
2007-04-18 22:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does love you but obviously he isnt in love with you because he would have never done that to you if he really was, he is just very imature and need to grow up , move on !
2007-04-19 07:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheather hates himself, it's impossible for him to love you, hang in their, Jesus loves you so much, all you have to do is invite Him into your heart, He will get rid of your broken heart, He will fill it with His love.....God bless ya
2007-04-18 22:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he only knows how to love with his penis...not his heart.
MOVE ON! He lied. Get over it. and get a better man. There are plenty out there!
2007-04-18 22:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by teacherintheroom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he changed his feelings, I think he knows exactly what to say to you to get you to do what he wants. Stay clear of this one..
2007-04-19 02:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jae C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. feelings can change within minutes...
feel sorry for you...
or perhaps he lied about loving you.
2007-04-18 23:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mint_Always 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋