why do girls flirt alot with other girls in high school. for example hitting me on my a** and kissing my cheeks saying stuff like "this is my girlfriend you cant have her" as jokes to other guys and girls, always saying i love you. also girls all the time give girls the look like nodding there head saying whats up i want to get with you as a joke. most of these girls love guys and are straight i think. they never do it around guys that much etiher. whats going on did you go through this?
2007-04-18
15:15:53
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janna-lasean
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Society & Culture
➔ Cultures & Groups
➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
p.s im not a lesbian
2007-04-18
15:16:16 ·
update #1
I think you're a little hung up on the 'lesbian' factor. Girls who are flirtatious are flirty with everyone. Not just guys. It doesn't mean that anyone is a lesbian or wanting to really have sex with their friends. A lot of girls boost their ego by flirting with girls in front of guys, plus younger girls tend to think that guys LOVE lesbian interaction, so most of the time- you'll see this when there is a guy near. BUT sometimes, girls show affection to each other by saying 'I love you' and 'you're sexy' or 'mmm I'd tap that'. It's a way that girls can boost each other's egos.
I'm not ruling out that SOME girls are curious about sexuality as any teenager is and they could possibly be testing their limits... But I wouldn't throw the word lesbian around. I don't think that's often the case in these situations.
2007-04-18 15:23:03
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answered by xjustdizzyx 2
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Society accepts girls, with girls easier then two men
doing things like you describe in your question.
By the way i'm a guy who has been around long enough to know about this stuff.
2007-04-18 22:24:48
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answered by Klingon 6
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No. No girls were that up front about it, though I think girls have more license to be flirty with one another than guys do, so they do it. They think it's cute, when in actuality, it's really frustrating.
2007-04-19 14:07:02
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answered by pjonkml 4
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hey, girls are girls. Leave them. They'll surprisingly have bad luck soon. Just don't worry about it. After all. Your you and I'm me (Well, I'm tom boyish (Not really but not girlish)) So be yourself and your fine. And watch the girls getting sucked up of those girls you mentioned
2007-04-18 22:20:41
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answered by SilverStream 3
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no I have never, but I lived in a time when it was look down on
but those days it a lots different
2007-04-18 22:19:42
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answered by Linda 7
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me and my friends joke around like that all the time...its kinda fun to see how others react when we do....(although me and my best friend are both bi so we are both comfortable with it)
2007-04-18 22:20:50
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answered by cdr dsw = <3 [11/1/10] 4
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Being young and naive
2007-04-18 22:22:12
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answered by Anonymous
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u know...some girls actually think it's a trend.
2007-04-18 22:21:47
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answered by Brave 2
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i know what u mean...me and my friends do that, but we are just playing.
2007-04-18 22:32:10
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answered by Anonymous
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girls will be girls
2007-04-18 22:20:07
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answered by Mikey 4
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