is it sluty to like your best friends brother???
if not sluty what is it or is it normal???
2007-04-18 12:18:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i already told her and i told her to tell her bro and shee did so i guess everyone knows
but my other friend said it was sluty but shes not trying to be mean she speaks the truth or a least says what she thinks
2007-04-18 12:32:59 · update #1
oh and he is 2 years older than me
2007-04-18 12:36:08 · update #2
It's normal. When I was 16 I had a crush on my best friend's brother. We even dated a while.
My only suggestion, if the relationship changes and you date him, you should find a way to balance the two relationships. It's not easy being a girlfriend of your best friend's brother. It can actually hurt a relationship.
I ended up losing my best friend. But she also liked my brother. We all hung out but things got difficult and jealousy started to enter the picture. It's not always the healthiest situation, especially when people are younger.
2007-04-18 12:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dragonflies NH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think about it, it makes perfect sense. Your best friend is your best friend because you get along so well....and he was brought up by the same family (I'm assuming), so of course you would have things you liked about him. Plus you see him a lot. So no, I don't think it's slutty at all. It's probably not a good idea to try and go anywhere with it though. At least not until you are a good deal older and he is out of the house.
2007-04-18 19:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course not, it's an average situation. Just be sure you handle it accordingly. Try to ask him out. But you might wanna keep it a secret frim ur friends until it's the right time.
2007-04-18 19:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg. Calm down! Lol. It's normal. There's nothing wrong about it! Lol. I used to like my friend's brother. xD Infact, I know MANY people who did. (not the same guy, just friend's brothers) Take a deep breathe and calm down. xD
2007-04-18 19:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Min 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't slutty to like your friends brother and yes it is quite normal. Don't put so much pressure on yourself. I had alot of friends that dated my brother, it didn't bother me at all.
2007-04-18 19:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's "slutty" to like your best friend's brother...it might complicate your life, but it is completely normal :) Just be careful...it might ruin your friendship
2007-04-18 19:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you have known the person for more than 24 hours family members are off limits
2007-04-18 19:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by redskins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to like your best friends brother. stop worrying and talk to her a bout liking him and see what she says
2007-04-18 19:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly normal
why not?
he's still a guy and still acts like one and looks like one, doesn't he?
how can that be slutty?
it might be uncomfortable for your bff, but it's not slutty!
and i don't understand the second part,
2007-04-18 19:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the age diffrence but other than that it is perfectly normal =D but i would talk to your friend about it before you make any sudden moves
2007-04-18 19:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Shiju T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋