For some reason I just always get the feeling that hes going to leave me. I dont know why, I think its just cause I'm pregnant. Really its more of Im scared hes going to cheat on me or something and ruin our relationship and love her. Even though theres no other girls. And hes the sweetest most caring guy I have ever met and I know he wouldnt do that to me. But just thats just the way I feel. Anyone else feel this way?
2007-04-18 12:03:21 · 11 answers · asked by PAYlURTACK* 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No,
I thought that I was at my most beautiful when I was pregnant. He made me feel like a goddess because I was carrying his children.
It was a wonderful experience and he made me feel beautiful, I knew that he would not got anywhere and never wondered.
2007-04-18 12:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that the reason you feel this way is a deep insecurity, and a fear of not being able to trust anyone. It's normal to feel more vulnerable when you are pregnant, even if you have a great husband or partner. Just make sure you are actually "testing" him to see how far you can push him before he will leave you or cheat on you. If you find yourself acting mean or being distant, and pushing his buttons, you might be doing this without even realizing it.
You don't really want to push him away, and he will be very confused.
You are just going through normal pregnancy emotions! Hang in there and love your guy, and he will love you back! The most important thing you can do right now is take care of yourself, and make sure your relationship is strong. The first year of having a new baby is so hard, and stressful on any relationship! Get it as strong as it can be now, before the baby comes.
2007-04-18 12:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hormones are going crazy right now. I am sure that he loves you and wants to be there for you and the baby. Try to stop being unreasonable and enjoy your pregnancy and trust in the fact that your husband loves you and wants you. I never felt this way but I can understand how your hormones can be out of whack. Just a heads up people who are pregnant and have hormones swings also may experience post partum depression so if you feel depressed after giving birth discuss this with your doctor. Good luck.
2007-04-18 12:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy hormones make you crazy! I know as I have strange thoughts about stuff like this all the time. Doesn't help that my husband recently told me that the only times he has ever wanted to leave me was when I was first pregnant and we hadn't found out yet...as my hormones made me turn into a mega ***** (apparently!!). As soon as we found out I was pregnant each time and he realised why I was being like that, he changed his mind of course but that sticks in my head every time we fight. Like today!!! Wonder if he will come home from work today or just run away??? hahaha.
Don't stress...it will all be good. He sounds like a great guy that wouldn't do that to you. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy.
2007-04-18 12:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by West Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend - her husband left her when she was 8 months pregnant with their 2nd child. Though I think the signs were there long before then. He had no real reason, just didn't want to be married anymore. So that left her for the first time in her life to be on her own (with two kids). Talk about an A$$HOLE...
2007-04-18 12:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In overall reality, NO! My husband was/is very supportive, and loved my big belly! He reminded me every day how much I, and our baby meant to him. He thought I was sexy. So I never worried about him cheating or leaving me. However, I did have some hormonal moments when I acted jealous for no reason (not like me)......pregnancy will mess with your mind like that! Good luck
2007-04-18 12:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im three months pregnant and im a jelous person when it comes to my man even though i have no reason to b because hes the most loyal man ive ever met..but i worry outta my mind and bug him about things he would never do..ive become over protective and i cant help it..i dont kno if its because i kno im gonna get big or what but ur not alone on this one..
2007-04-18 12:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling to figure out WHY you feel this way.. Talk to him.. It could ne intuition, could be hormones... a counselor might help in just one or two visits.. You may be feeling insecure because you are pregnant - that is very normal...
2007-04-18 12:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by astutewoman 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
im not pregnant,, or atleast i hope not. i did think that he would get scared and leave but then i realized he would be too scared..ill kill him haha just kidding
2007-04-18 12:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. it is natural to think that way. he might just be excited but not knowing how to show it.
2007-04-18 12:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Dudu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋