Honeymoon advice?

Question

Okay, I'm getting married in early May and my hubbie and I are planning to go to Hawaii for our honeymoon. I need help in coming up with plans for our honeymoon, especially the sex part of it!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know what lingerie to wear, what toys to bring, what position, whether to use protection or not, etc... PLEASE offer any advice (men and women) on what I should do. I am still a virgin and promised myself not to lose it until marriage and have kept that commitment. THANX for all of your help.

Answer 1

Congratulations!

You'll love Hawaii and great job on waiting until the wedding night, I know it's difficult!

I found a few links for you that I think may help you with some ideas.

I didn't want to put this link on here, but if you search the web with "Honeymoon For Lovers Kit" you'll find a kit for $29.99 that you could use for your Honeymoon.

Have fun and again, Congratulations!

Good luck

Answer 2

When i got married on out first honey moon night ,my wife had a very beautiful white sequin sexy out fit that she wore for like 10 Min's. They rest of the time we spent having sex was either upon waking up still naked from the night before,or coming in from the pool or other sites at out Jamaican resort. It was actually jumerous watch all the honeymooners getting up and going to thier rooms and coming back a little while later. I believe all the fancy sexy lingerie was never used till we got home and played. All the sex acts will come natural, leave the toys for later, as far a protection it depends on when u want too have a baby. 9 months from may or a few years. Good luck and have fun.

Answer 3

Your best bet for lingerie is to start with something simple. The main issue should be that you feel sexy in it. My main tip is think you are sexy=sexy. I personally would go overboard on toys, as its you first sexual experience it might be best to just keep it simple, flavoured oils and lotions. Rather than pull out some giant monster toy, this can really offend some men. A really goo idea is to have a subtle conversation with your fiancee about any fantasies he might have, your honeymoon is the perfect place to suprise him with one! You will be away from distractions and able to feel comfotable to fool aroujnd and even role play. For positions obviusly missionary is a good place to start. You can add to this by wrapping your legs around his waist and pulling yourself closer to him or arching your back, a pillow under the bum helps too. If later on in the honeymoon you feel more comfortable you can become more adventurous. The main thing is to enjoy yourself, sometimes it can be easy to get caugh up in the paraphenalia of sex; gspot toys positions, and forget how fantastic it can be to look into each others eyes and make love! Best of luck for the wedding day and the honeymoon and for the future with your husband :)

Answer 4

First off ... congratulations on your upcoming wedding and I wish you the very best of luck for a happy, long and fulfilling life together.

Now to your question .... if you have been strong enough to keep your virginity until after the wedding ... then I would suggest that you speak with your fiancee about this dilemma you're having.

I'm sure you took your own advise about staying a virgin and therefore your wedding night and honeymoon should be something that you and your husband plan together.

This time of your life should be as memorable as the two of you make it and want it to be. Far be it from strangers to advise you about such a wonderful, private and loving experience in your life.

Do whatever tickles both your fancies .... relax and enjoy yourselves ... there will be so much for the two of you to learn about each other. Best wishes ....

Answer 5

You are both going to be nervous because neither of you has any sexual experience and do not know what to expect. That is normal and expected for couples like you two. The best advise I could give you is to use your communication skills and talk to your fiance before the wedding night to share your hopes and fears. Once you two talk and realize you are probably both clueless, you will be able to relax a bit more. Losing your virginity is scary and exciting at the same time. These new physical feelings will be overwhelming at first until you get used to what is happening to your bodies during sexual activity. Soon you will let your guard down and do what comes naturally. Planning a wedding takes a long time, the days leading up to the wedding are hectic and stressful and the wedding day itself can be pretty exhausting once it is over. So, please do not feel pressured to consummate the marriage on the wedding night if the two of you just want to sleep once your head hits the pillow. When you wake up in the morning, you may find that to be a better time to explore each other sexually.

Answer 6

Since you're a virgin I wouldn't worry about toys on the honeymoon (maybe handcuffs though). You guys are going to screw like rabbits.

Go to Victoria's or Fredderick's and try on a few things. Go with what you feel sexiest in. For added fun you can buy those crotchless panties... :)

Now, for protection...You two need to evaluate if you are ready for kids. Even if it's yoru first time, it only takes one time for that baby to make his/her way in 9 months. You can actually get on birth control now. It would be effective before you leave and you can plan it so you are not having your period then too.


Make sure to have fun...and get off you back long enough to take in the sunset at least once ;)

Answer 7

Man...if you're THIS young and already need fancy lingerie and "toys"....then either something's wrong, or you are not in a passionate relationship! The early days/weeks/ months are SO passionate (or they should be) that you don't NEED any of that stuff! Just making love should be enough. It's when you've been together awhile and boredom starts to creep in, that you start experimenting!

Don't get me wrong...using that stuff isn't "wrong". It's just a sign that more stimulation than just being together is needed...and THAT is not good! Maybe you should re-think this marriage???

Answer 8

theres this book called the wild guide to sex and loving. A great book for beginners, and experts!!! Its written by siobhan kelly. Barnes and Noble. go to Vickies or Fredericks of Hollywood for lingerie. Bring lots of candles, and stop and get strawberries,and microwavable chocolate. Bring a video camera too! You'll be fine!

Answer 9

lucky u!! i made tht decision too n i m still stickin to it..
so underware wise.. bring sumthing sexy n playful like balconette bras n french nicker n things.. u must get sum sexy stockings/ hold-ups... positionwise: well i wouldnt worry too much about tht once u get going u will find what u want..hav a look at sum books check WHSmith they hav loads on tht..toys: hmm well they could take up quiet a bit of space so i would go for lite wight like handcuffs but its up to u n him n wht u like..
bring sum oil coz it will help a lot if u have a nice long massage b4 u hav intercourse, remember intercourse is made up of four parts: excitement..plato.. most exciting part orgasm...n relaxation..
make sure to bring sum lubericants with u as u mite not able to produce ur own natural coz u mite be a bit £%^*&(^ hope u get the point...
so i would say enjoy urselves n hav fun exploring eachother..

Answer 10

It doesn't matter what you wear, you won't have it on long anyway! Don't need toys, you two will work out the positions, use protection unless you want to get pregnant on your honeymoon!!! Quit worrying yourself sick over nothing! It will be fine!