i need help!!???please anyone!!?

Question

i was at my boyfriends house and we were playing a game... but i didnt tell my rents what i was doing and when they called i said i was driving around.. then my mom drove by his house and noticed his car... then she came and got me... and said that i needed to earn my trust back and more stuff like that.. idk what to do can you help please?? and i cant see him for th rest of the week but we have school but i just dont know what to do or say to anyone!!

my boyfriend knows... and its hard to talk to my rents and i dont know why

i do my school work and i said i was sorry...,

his rents wernt home but his bro was

Answer 1

First start out by saying your sorry . And hopefully you are because your mom is right about earning her trust again. She has your best interest at heart and you need to be honest with her. If she can trust you on little things then she will learn to trust you on the bigger things you say and do in the future. And be honest with your boyfriend that you fibbed to your parents and got caught and your grounded for a week. He will understand.

Answer 2

This story was so hard to follow for me. I don't understand how you can get in trouble if your parents (rents?) notice his car at his house. Anyway, the next time you just gotta start telling the truth and keep telling the truth even when you feel as if you gotta lie. In your story, you didn't say that you were sorry...... and giving her a gift doesn't help. My sister had a problem of lying to my mom like that all the time to the point where she cried! And it takes a lot of out my mom to cry. So just remember when feel like you gotta lie to your mom, think about all that she does for you...and I mean everything. She puts you through school, buys you clothes, probably gives you money, feeds you...... all those things. All she asks from you now is to be honest and responsible. I guess now all you can do is focus more on school. Don't let your decisions that you sacrifice to be with your boyfriend mess up the relationship that you have with your family and your school work.

Answer 3

Here 's a simple solution: TELL THE TRUTH! Secrets keep us stuck in the kind of craziness you're experiencing now. Anyone who can't accept that you got busted is probably not really a friend.

And telling the truth is also the beginning of how you build trust. One more thing:do you really feel like your parents had something so terrible in mind that you found it necessary to lie? Wouldn't it have been easier to tell the truth in the first place? Was going to his house something they forbade you to do?

There's an old expression: If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. Take your punishment like a grownup if you want to BE a grownup. And weigh out the consequences before hand.

Answer 4

First off, never lie of go behind your parent backs. The consequences are worse than if you tell the truth and they get mad. I have two grown daughters and as far as I know they only lied to me once. I may have gotten upset or mad when the truth was told to me but after I calmed down we talked and worked things out. I never put up with deceit or lies and if you want your parents to trust you again never lie to them and be truthful at all times even if they get upset with you. It is better than loosing their respect. If you were my daughter and I caught you in a lie you would be grounded for longer than a week so consider yourself lucky. You sound like a thief that isn't sorry he stole but sorry he got caught. Don't be deceitful and you won't have to pay the consequences.

Answer 5

Well, first off stop lying to your parents. Second, stay away from him as much as is practical at school, and after school as well. One week isn't that bad. Earning their trust back will take time. It may be speeded along by making sure you are extra truthful, especially for the time being.

Answer 6

Why lie to them? You'll always pay a price. Anyway...tell your boyfriend that your embarrassed, and your sorry about what happened. He's probably feeling embarrassed too. As for what to tell everyone else, just tell them you messed up. Everyone has. By next week, it'll all be old news.
From now on, don't do anything that you would have to lie about.

Answer 7

I have a 15 & 16 year old. I am constantly worried about everything they do and who they are doing it with. It is for their safety. Your mom loves you and is not being nosy or trying to hurt you. If something happened to you she wouldn't know what to tell the authorities that would help them find you. If you couldn't tell your mom what you were really doing, chances are you shouldn't have been doing it. When you have your own kids you will understand. Your mom is right to expect you to prove you are trustworthy again. Imagine the pain she would feel if something bad happened to you, and now triple it. How would you feel if the role was reversed?

Answer 8

You should firstly stop lying to your parents,they are just trying to protect you,i know that we all have our secrets and at 1 time or another you will have 2lie urself out of a situation but to avoid conflict you have to open up to ur parents and tell them what ur doing,ask their consent b4 u do stuff just to let them know that you care about what they think too

Answer 9

start by not lying. If your parents don't want you there - there is probably a reason. Do the honorable thing and apologize to your parents about being dishonest and work on earning their trust back.

Answer 10

If I were you I would apologize to your parents and tell them that you made a mistake and that you didn't want to lie to them. Another good thing to do with parents is to incorporate them into your relationship maybe ask them if it would be ok to have your boyfriend over for dinner. I hope it works out.